Uh-oh, what happened at FTV? My account ran out 3 months ago, I had just setup to get their year-long special and in my head at least, I was convinced if they're still shooting like they always did that I was seriously considering making them my first 100. I used to talk to their webmaster but haven't heard from in awhile.
The good part with the psychologist dating, I met her, as a mentor to her. She was 18 when I first met her, I was 23-24. I typically have to find something odd to have in common with women since so few understand my past and at least in America, some are intimidated or timid about my past (prior to psychology, growing up around gangs in Los Angeles, lots of deaths including brother and more than 20 friends.) If I get the chance this weekend, I'll post a thread about fetishes. Khan used to always ask me to do those Q&A with a member and/or to open up more about myself. I used to talk to him a lot in emails and he always believed members would open up more if one of the longtime members started it. Now, I'm at the point in my life that I don't worry too much about who might see it or might realize who I am.
Hey RA, I responded once but the post monster ate it, so if a double reply shows up, you'll know why.
The anal masturbation on here is different than what I'm used to. A couple of the models go all out with a dildo, anally. Including one that puts a knee on each arm of the chair with her butt facing the camera. The best, to me, of the scenes with anal is one of Caprice's. She has four scenes on here, 3 include some kind of anal. The best one, she slowly fingers her butt with one finger, great eye contact in it, I'm not used to seeing what I would call "erotic anal fingering" but she pulls it off. Overall, about 20% of the scenes have anal in them. Abella Danger has a scene on here and as expected she goes all out with the dildo, anally. Probably half of the "anal" scenes are models masturbating with a butt plug in. I think the other two of Caprice are butt plug scenes. The most "extreme" they go is a couple of those real squirt scenes. By real squirt, I mean the model gets very wet and creamy and a little of it squirts out maybe 6 inches.
I didn't think too much about the price, my fetishes are driving my site joins these days. I was dating a female psychologist who I've known for 20 years. She says my fetishes are the oddest she's ever seen because "They're so normal". We have a lot of talks about how we develop our fetishes and she thinks it's funny that my fetishes are what she calls, "kind of cute, kind of sweet, kind of perverted". The public nudity one for example, my second wife was a natural exhibitionist. She was from South America. I couldn't keep her clothes on her. It did nothing for me. If anything, it made me frustrated. The "natural" part is what matters. She believed when at our house, in our backyard (fenced), in the small pool, she should be naked. Didn't matter if company came by. She would walk by them naked and get a towel to put around her. But she never was into "risky" which is where my public nudity fetish starts. I think a fetish thread would be good in the forum. I'm sure we have had some but at least with me, it would explain my choices in current sites.
Thanks tangub, my fetishes have been influencing the sites I join. Panties was never a top fetish of mine but I do have the one of women sliding their panties over to masturbate and this site does that a lot. The panty content is a lot like the older Euro sites and I think the ages of the models (little older than regular teen porn) has them being more erotic with the way they tease. I originally thought it might be the same company that runs Fitness Rooms and thought maybe one day they would combine them but they don't seem to be related. After going through the content, I'll surprise myself by saying I think Caprice's scenes are the best I've seen of her and the best on the site. I stopped collecting her content several years ago because everything I watched of her was the same. She's matured a lot, is over being "cute" and she really does a good job at being erotic (eye contact, body language). For the best value, I would wait about 6 months, they'll be up to over 100 scenes by then.
Their anal masturbation isn't that common, about 20% of the scenes and several are just the model masturbating with a butt plug in. I thought one of the Caprice scenes was one of the best. It included her doing a very light, one finger, anal masturbation towards the end of it. It is quite erotic. I think I kind of turned away from her content years ago because she was on every site I was on and thought her older content was kind of dull. She seems to have grown up a lot. I didn't even know she does anal content. And Abella Danger has a scene, I think she always does anal and does on here with a dildo. One of the scenes, I don't remember the model's name, maybe Lorena G the 31 year old model. She's up in the chair with a knee on each arm of the chair and using a dildo anally. The masturbation on the site is very good, overall. You get the feeling of real orgasms with most of the models and some are very intense (in speed), others are more erotic and move their bodies with the motion of the toy or fingers. There's nothing extreme on it, though. There was a couple of squirt videos that went more into the real or believable squirts where the creamy fluid squirts out maybe 6 inches.
I think a fetish thread would be interesting on the forum. I'm sure we've had them before to some extent but because my fetishes are very much influencing my site joins these days, it might be interesting to share some of mine and even how I developed them.
At this point, for me, I look at the content/theme as much as anything. I saw a site recently that has been around awhile called, Lost Bet Games, that has a somewhat unique theme, average, mostly amateur looking models that I am considering joining just because it looks like something different.
I hate to hear that. Bang actually did a lot to help me, including refunding the membership I used but the biller echst.net lied to me multiple times and are still lying to me.
They had charged me $7.95, $19.95 (3x), I didn't realize it was that many times until I kept going back to my bank account. They (echst.net) told me it was for Viv Thomas. I'm a pretty big fan of Viv Thomas but hadn't been a member in over a year. Their customer service rep (Chris) told me he would refund all the charges on the supposed Viv Thomas account. He refunded one $19.95. I contacted him again, friendly at that, he said it was probably bank processing that was slowing it down. I waited a week, no more refunds. I contacted him again, he said he was going to put the refunds in again and this time was starting to get an attitude about it. Still didn't get any of the refunds. I contacted him again. He said their system had problems and that most likely caused all the problems, "I'm going to put the refunds in again, right now." That was 3 weeks ago, still haven't received any of the other refunds.
The frustrating part is the supposed "Viv Thomas" account started on the same day as my Bang account and the biller is the same for both sites. Talking sense to Chris hasn't done me any good because he just makes the same comment and comes up with a new excuse each time. I even have 9 emails from him. That's how long the problem has been going on.
One that I think might be a little touchy here in North American is the Western Chikan website. They use CCBill but I don't think it's ever been listed on TBP or PU. Chikan is known as the Japanese bus/train groping sites. Those wouldn't be that popular here since they are censored. The Western Chikan site isn't censored and it has the train/bus groping, touching of all sorts, sex on the train/bus with people watching but I do know it's not the most-accepted form of porn in our Western society since it can look "forced".
A much more accessible option is the Porn Doe Network. I discovered the network and these sites by accident awhile back.
They have Chicas Loco which is a public sex site set in bookstores, bars, diners but I will say these are very controlled environments with sometimes less than 5 people watching.
Also on Porn Doe is Crowd Bondage. This is the direct ripoff of Public Disgrace. Some of the humiliation goes beyond my threshold for enjoyment. Including at least a couple of scenes where the "public" drops their cigarette ashes in the model's mouth while she has sex. They do the scenes with random people squirting the model's face with water hoses. Their scenes, especially at first glance, could easily pass as Public Disgrace scenes with most of the male talent wearing all black clothing. But even these scenes end up in very controlled environments.
Still, if you ever join Porn Doe's Network they're worth checking out.
JP Outdoor has some good "public" Japanese scenes that are uncensored but these are much tamer than Public Disgrace.
Cum Louder, a once promising network that is a mess now, has Latin Asses in Public, used to be known as Publico Culoes, that has the scenes where they walk a naked or flashing woman through the streets of the big cities in Europe. I'll put a link to this one because it's hard to find the content on their site. Even with the search supposed to only show Latin Asses in Public, you'll see that there's plain hardcore scenes mixed in the results too but you'll see the public ones too.
Does sex not count as hands-free?
Based on Merc's answer it's going into stopping while masturbating but still being able to achieve orgasm. I have had an ex or two that liked to stop their hand or mouth or body movement right as orgasm neared, then it would "accidentally" happen without stimulation. If it means without any stimulation, then I would say no, unless I had wet dreams many years ago.
I edited my original post to reflect this. Once in contact with Bang's support they said it couldn't be Bang Live because it's pay as you go, not a recurring membership. But instead of blowing me off at that, they helped me track it down through echst.net. A support member there found that the charges were from a Met Art site, seems echst.net also is Met Art's biller but I haven't been a member on any of the Met Art sites in awhile. The support member closed the account and refunded me. He also found a third charge I hadn't noticed all the way back in May and refunded it. So, problem fixed but I do think that shows why I had been using prepaid cards. And I'll start paying more attention to my bank statements.
I'll credit my first serious relationship with a non-American woman for helping me discover it. She came from a country that repressed women. I couldn't understand how she could be insecure (what I thought), so I started showing her some porn and it was like she became a whole different woman. Turns out it was her seeing that I wasn't going to get mad or condemn her for looking at porn that helped. The problem that eventually showed its face was she didn't know when/what was too much. She would see a exhibitionism/flashing type porn scene and want to go out into public with a skirt and no panties. It made for a very exciting sex life but we were young (early to mid-20s for me, she was 19-21) and when I wouldn't want to do risky things she would take it as me not being interested in her. In the PU forum thread, "Top 5 or 10 favorite scenes", I listed a handful of scenes that are in my favorites just because women love them. I think from the male perspective you have to be prepared for something a lot of men say isn't true. Women like women, they find women sexier than men, which is understandable to me but it can be hard for a man who realizes if she is that much into women he really can't compete. So, those scenes I shared, they focus on the woman in the scene being in control with men or a man. Those scenes have never failed me. Including one woman who told me she despised porn. Those type of statements are often what a woman thinks a man wants to hear. The confusion that can come in there is some women are like that towards their boyfriend/husband watching porn because it bothers them that he's getting off over other women so they believe he will be bothered by her getting off over other men and women in porn.
I've found it opens up communication and that helps with trust.
Thanks RA, still waiting on a response. I sent the email to the email address their webmaster listed above around 9 PM EST last night and so far only an automated response. The biller from the best I can tell is echst.net, that was what concerned me when I saw it on my bank statement. On the other side of it, the card I used is through my local bank so I put the "approve before allowing purchases" on it temporarily. I'll give them a few more hours before replying to their webmaster in this section.
As a solo porn fan, I've always pushed for more eye contact from the model with the camera. Oddly enough, that is my version of virtual reality. The funny part is there's nothing more frustrating to me than a model who keeps looking at the camera in a scene that involves more than one model. This was one of the traits that I felt made Eve Angel the best solo performer. I later found out from a photographer named Peter who ran the old site Teen Models and worked for all of the big Euro sites that Eve's boyfriend at the time was often holding the camera and she would see the filming as a way to practice her seduction with him. Worked for me and it's mostly believable because if Eve was on another site (besides her own) she would struggle to have the same kind of eye contact.
It was the first time I've had this type of charge happen. I was a big part of that once hack of Teen Dreams where the webmaster blamed us all for sharing our passwords and banned us ... later apologized and reinstated everyone. The thing that really worried me is when I finally signed in to Bang Live, it said I had up to $225 of credits to use. I'm just now getting to email them to get it resolved and will post back and edit some of this if they get it fixed. I never could do those webcam shows. I remember when Eve Angel used to have live shows on her first site and you could chat with her but it didn't appeal to me for some reason.
I can tell you I hadn't ever heard of Bang Live until I went to echst(dot)net to see who was charging me. I then didn't know it was a cam site until I had to sign in on Bang Live (with the login from Bang) just to try and cancel it. I did list that wrong earlier. From what I can tell the Bang Live account is still active even though I went through the cancellation process. The main problem I've had with it is the email address that you said isn't being used. It was sent to me in an automated response when trying to cancel. I'll include a screenshot if it's allowed.
I'll accept that it could have been hacked.
I have a long history here at Porn Users, 11+ years, 300+ reviews of porn sites and one theme about me that's never changed is I am a collector. Cam sites wouldn't be something I would be interested in. I will accept that I could have clicked on a picture of a hot model thinking it was content but I still think you all have to set something up to send an email when someone joins a site, cam site. Here's the image if it will let me post it:
I agree about the possibilities of computer problems but there's still a few problems, including:
#1 No email to tell me I was signed up for Bang Live.
#2 The support email address returning my email.
#3 The cancellation page not having an instant cancel. It instead makes you sign in on Banglive.com then has you send the email to the wrong email address.
#4 Their Automated Response sending me an email address that their webmaster says isn't used for support. I'll drop a screenshot in an online photo album and include a link to it in the reply to their webmaster.
Being an overly-analytical person (I hate it), all these things went through my head before I decided to post the comment. And maybe most importantly, through all this, it still shows my account to BangLive as active despite me going through the cancellation process three times. It's hard to believe the same error is happening over and over. Their cancellation page has a clear "cancel" button but as mentioned above it then asks you to sign in. The initial problem was I never knew I was a member on Bang Live so I had no idea my login from Bang Prime was the same.
Thank you for the reply. I have had a rough few weeks, as seen by me looking at my bank account to even remember what sites I have memberships to. Bang seems like a reputable enough company to fix it but I would hope they look at the screenshot I include a link to and see that their site is sending people the wrong email address for support. Which to me shows a sloppiness that very easily could cause people to be charged for other upsells without verifying they want the upsell and without sending them an email to tell them they joined an upsell.
I would do what I did before I discovered porn. Watch regular mainstream television and hope for a hard nipple or cameltoe or nice butt. Then I'd just wait for the world of rebels to figure out the next big thing. Maybe it would be candid videos from beaches or dressed women telling about their favorite way to tease a man? We're too creative and rebellious of a society to say "Okay, no more sexual content of any kind." Maybe I would finally write those Erotica books I've been talking about for 20 years?
So, the problem I had with three recurring charges, originally thought it was two, turns out to be some kind of payment/biller issue. Echst.net showed my only active account as bang live but Bang's support said that account was a pay as you go, not a recurring monthly charge. They helped me out by providing me a chat link to echst.net's support. From there I chatted with a support member who noticed that the charges were coming from one of the Met Art sites. I haven't been a member on one of those Met Art sites since last year. There doesn't seem to be an answer of how it happened but the support member closed the account and refunded me the three charges, so very good support but once again, the concern of using a bank card or credit card comes back into my thinking.
The main advice I can share is check your bank statements. At least the billers seem to be fair and willing to work with you.
I believe in the ability to fantasize swinging WITH your spouse or significant other but don't think the actual action of it helps. The fantasy of it can often bring out emotions that we struggle with and if done together, it can build a new level of trust but shouldn't be done if either person is insecure.
Thank you, good intuition, I used to be a psychologist and do work in a college now. Sometime in the future, I'll most likely try out being a professor. I try to be as informative and straight-forward as possible in my reviews.
Thanks for the added part. I didn't even realize the Hookup Hotshot content was on EA. I have a strange aversion to anything that comes close to puking in my porn and know that Gozzling has had content that has it in it. It's one of those great mysteries. I got near death drunk when I was a teenager. Spent a whole day and night in the ER, eating charcoal, with a bucket between my legs and a cop standing there the whole time. Kind of funny now since the cops worked in shifts. Once I had everything out of me, the on-duty cop was an older man, he looked at me and said, "Son, I think you've learned your lesson. I'm not going to arrest you." I haven't thrown up since then (26 years). Some say I show signs of Emetophobia but it doesn't bother me like say in The Walking Dead or when someone I care about throws up. When I see it in porn, it agitates me. It's possible, from my use of imagination with porn, that I look at porn in a more glamorous way and the addition of something coming up ruins that for me.
I was recently factory resetting my PC. It had some strange glitch that was saying my G: drive was running out of space. I don't have a G: drive. It was popping up about every 10 minutes. My PC originally was a Windows 8.1 PC. I had used the free upgrade to Windows 10 about two or three years ago. I was worried about resetting since I was thinking it would put it back as a Windows 8.1. So, I followed Microsoft's advice and made a digital backup of my Windows 10 software on an external hard drive. Once it reset, something was wrong, it was still Windows 10. Turns out to be that once you have Windows 10, your PC knows it and remembers it so it resets to Windows 10. I then hooked the external back up with the Windows digital backup copy on it to find out when I saved the digital backup to it, it reformatted the external, wiping out 4 TB of porn. So, I lost all that porn but really, it wasn't any of my most favorite scenes.
It's interesting because I lived in Los Angeles County up until 2013. One of my biggest concerns about moving was finding a cable company similar to Time Warner. I moved over 2,500 miles, right along the NE Tennessee/Virginia/North Carolina border in the mountainous area. I moved out here because I got a divorce and because my sister-in-law told me she was putting my nephews up for adoption. My brother, their dad, passed away when the boys were toddlers. So, I moved out here to try and get away from the fast life in LA and to adopt my nephews. I knew they watched a lot of television (teenagers), used the internet a lot and streamed movies. When I got out here I had 3 choices: Charter, Comcast and some company called Century Link. I went with Charter. They only had 30Mbps internet but their cable was a lot better than the other two. It went up to 50 Mbps right before they bought Time Warner and created Spectrum. Their customer service is similar. My newest bundle has telephone included. Which is more useful than I thought it would be. Works well for keeping my nephews off cellphones while at home and is at least teaching them to talk to people with their mouth. I talked to Spectrum just after sending this. They said the 100 Mbps is the slowest in my region but that 2/3 of the city still only gets 60 Mbps. The customer service will argue with me for 30 minutes on the phone but the people in the office are very nice. This is a progressive southern metro that's the same size as the Atlanta metro. Most everyone out here is very nice in person. I do have fiber optic internet at work but haven't really been able to test it since they wouldn't be too happy if I started downloading porn lol.
The only things I really miss about LA, are the weather (it's -5 to 95 with 100% humidity here), the pretty women everywhere (more laid-back, conservative business women here) and Tommy Burgers and In-N-Out Burgers (they actually have a restaurant here called Pal's Burgers that is based on Tommy Burgers but they're not quite as good, still not bad.)
Thank you,
I usually look over the cookie cutter parts. I know back 10 years ago, when the Euro scene was taking over, they had zero plot and were still my favorite sites. Fitness Rooms interested me because, first, the site is based around pretty women exercising in workout clothes. I like to see the models clothed before nude. The only problem was they remove the taking clothes off part. The models will be clothed and exercising then an edit pops in and they're suddenly naked.
I remember being a member on Dane Jones years ago and unless my memory isn't working good, I could have sworn it was a solo site back then. I think I've become almost as picky as messmer. I don't really like anal, don't really like the sex that pushes a softer, romantic side but it really shouldn't be a surprise since for the first few years on PU, I almost exclusively joined solo masturbation/tease sites.
And on the other reply it was a mistake on my part. I also have Spectrum at 100Mbps and the downloads on here were varying between 2MBps and 15MBps. The 15MBps is unmatched, that's the highest I ever get. I'm usually in the 11-12 MBps range. Of course, when I'm used to 11-12 MBps, dropping me to 2 MBps is a big change.
Does Spectrum upgrade your speed? I haven't ever paid more than whatever the basic internet speed is that they sell. This one I currently have is listed as 50Mbps on my contract but they sent a postcard a few months ago that said I had been upgraded to 100Mbps with no raise in price. I wondered if it is because I download so much and stream television.
That's interesting, I put strapon.xxx in my search bar and it opened Sexy Hub. I checked all of the sites they have listed as add-on or upgrade options but there's no strapon.xxx. I also did a standard search for "Strap on" and there are 21 scenes that came up, of course, if the word "strap on" isn't in the scenes title, it won't show those. Of the 21, 6 are on girlfriends.xxx and 15 are on Lesbea. I found the bonus channels and there is a lesbian one there but I selected "MILF" as my bonus so it won't let me see the lesbian one unless I pay for the upgrade.
Of the 21 scenes, all are two women, lesbian scenes. None with men but interestingly enough, the search for "strap on" brought up 9 models and 3 are guys but the scenes these guys have don't have strap-ons in them. I did find a few tube sites that had content from strapon.xxx but none of those scenes look familiar. They have other networks too, besides the obvious ones like Brazzers and Mofos. They also have Fake Hub network which is very similar to Sexy Hub. Oh and I clicked on the locked bonus icon, it offers access to "thousands" of bonus scenes for $1. It can be confusing in the member section. I'll keep an eye out for that content and let you know if I find any.
Lee Stone. I once wrote in a review that Lee Stone annoyed me more than any porn star and said I would stop joining their site if they didn't cut back on his appearances. Once that didn't work, I started referring to him in my other reviews as "Ol' Broke Dick". There's several Eva Angeline scenes with him that he completely ruins.
Surewood has one advantage, he is always cast with those sweet, innocent models but I haven't seen a lot of him. I had to look him up.
I don't recognize Keiran Lee.
I think JMac and Johnny Sins are very similar. Most of the negativity towards them is how many scenes they are seen in. I remember JMac once saying in a scene that he had filmed 4 scenes in 3 hours. I have heard that Sins has something new going on with his wife that annoys people.
Never heard a bad thing about Ron Jeremy. The female models seem to adore him. That is the guy who once said, "I was willing to shoot porn with a bag over my head."
The two that I thought of are Pierre Woodman and James Deen.
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