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05-21-15  02:35pm - 47 days Update on Graymane (10 Posts) - #5
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Hey, Graymane, my thoughts are with you and I miss you. Get better soon and come back, I hate to be the oldest one in this Forum!!

04-29-15  12:50pm - 69 days Are models getting less attractive? (16 Posts) - #15
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Originally Posted by biker:


That could be true. I prefer lesbian and solo scenes. The models I mentioned do a lot of those. The network sites I join have their hardcore boy/girl scenes and it seems mostly a guy pounding on the woman in a few different positions until climax. No seduction or sweetness about it. Not what I enjoy. It also may be what the models also prefer because the ones doing softcore seem more attractive to me. Of course that could be my prejudice.


I like your prejudice, biker!

04-28-15  06:32pm - 70 days Are models getting less attractive? (16 Posts) - #13
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Judging by some of the responses maybe I wasn't being clear enough. If you are talking hardcore and porn stars then most likely nothing much has changed. Producers/sites will pick the best looking of the bunch for their videos. That shouldn't be too hard with a reduced number of videos being shot.

I was thinking of softcore sites with five updates a day like ATK Natural & Hairy, or Aunt Judy's, or WeAreHairy, or AllOver30 to name four of my former favorite sites.

In other words, sites that specialized in picture sets, plus some videos, that featured nudity with a bit of masturbation thrown in? Hardcore has become more noticeable in all of them and by coincidence the models (NOT porn stars) don't appear to be as beautiful and fresh as they used to be!

Could it be possible that these sites, after their progression to harder material now find it more difficult to obtain beautiful models who are also willing to do hard stuff along with the soft? Just a thought.

04-26-15  06:23pm - 72 days Are models getting less attractive? (16 Posts) - #9
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Originally Posted by Denner:


Messmer...I'm not so active here, anymore...once in a while.
But still hunting - and yes the same goes for easteuro models - less active, less attractive.
And the good ol' ones seems to vanish must faster than ever - and the few newer ones does not live up to the former standards - sorry to say - but just my opinion. Boy, how I miss more material from just fascinating russian, hungarian ect. models - but it's a slim pick

So it's the old desk-archives.


Hey, Denner, so good to see your name again. And thanks for the remarks. I was beginning to believe it was all in my mind.

04-22-15  12:04pm - 76 days Is Porn Losing Its sparkle or Do You Think Its Great These Days (39 Posts) - #37
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Originally Posted by exotics4me:


What about sites that were huge in the early to mid 2000s like Twistys, Teen Dreams and ATK's sites? Sites that have now turned into messes or attempts to somehow squeeze in some hardcore which goes against everything they were built on.


That is indeed a disturbing trend and has turned me away from many sites that used to be my favorites.

Originally Posted by exotics4me:


I once posted on here about the types of models I like. I don't remember my exact wording, but I do know it goes into a lot of us like models who are a step above our league physically (or higher). It makes the fantasy for us more realistic. Your generation has been taught not to fantasize. Not to shoot high. Which is why porn today isn't as much about helping viewers create a fantasy in their head as it is to make you think you really have a chance with the girls in porn. It's a change in our society and how we create our expectations.


Very insightful! It's good to have a Psychologist aboard. You have put into words something I couldn't put my finger on. Edited on Apr 22, 2015, 12:08pm

04-22-15  11:53am - 76 days Sorry! (2 Posts) - #3
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Originally Posted by Khan:


done


Thanks, Khan. It was embarrassing to see that long string of posts, glad to see you removed them so quickly.

04-22-15  11:51am - 76 days Are models getting less attractive? (16 Posts) - #5
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Originally Posted by biker:


I've got used to seeing the lovely women that appear on DDF. Eve Angel, Zafira, and Blue Angel to name a few. I don't know if they are going to be doing as much work now they are getting older, but there are always others that find their way to sites like DDF. One that has caught my eye is Judy Smile. Like her, I think there will always be women of exception beauty that will be drawn to porn. Take a look at the past and you find gorgeous creatures like Annette Haven. She was extremely attractive and produced some of the finest scenes that porn will ever see. I didn't any woman could replace her. Well naturally no one possesses her fine qualities and presence, but each new decade brings fresh faces with their own loveliness and style to film and photo sets and have given something special to this industry. I have feeling that is going to continue. There will always be women who shine. I'm more worried about those who work behind the camera, who don't know how to present the talent walking through their doors, then the women themselves. Give theses new women a chance to get comfortable working in front of the camera and I think you will surprised at the scenes they make special for us and hope the producers and camera men have the talent to capture it.


Thanks, biker. I have heard many good comments about DDF and think I'll make that my next subscription. I loved Blue Angel from other sites.

04-22-15  11:47am - 76 days Are models getting less attractive? (16 Posts) - #4
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Originally Posted by lk2fireone:


I think it's probably all in your mind.
Or you could be putting too much emphasis on one or two days of browsing.

I'm finding lots of very attractive new models, that are constantly appearing in porn. Both in softcore and in hardcore.

And of course, there are loads of new models that have just entered the field in the last two years. That are attractive to just absolutely stunning.

Check out the Metart site. There are sites that give large thumbnails of the Metart models.

I'm not saying that every model is attractive. They do have some plain or average-looking girls. But most of the models are attractive to extremely attractive to really lovely.

That's my opinion, anyway.


It probably *is* all in my mind. It was a stupid question anyway since beauty is in the eye of the beholder. It was nothing but a gut reaction from closely following three sites that had been my favorites in the past and I very rarely see a woman who appeals to me in the updates, which is a far cry from only a few years ago.

The models (in my eyes) appear to have coarsened and I haven't seen anyone breathtaking in some time. But, as I said, what's beautiful to me is not necessarily beautiful to you and vice versa. So forget I even asked!

04-22-15  12:40am - 76 days Sorry! (2 Posts) - Original Post - #1
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Sorry!

Sorry about the flood. I kept getting the message that the connection to the site got lost. Please remove all but the first post, Khan!

04-22-15  12:36am - 76 days Are models getting less attractive? (16 Posts) - Original Post - #1
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Are models getting less attractive?

While browsing the updates in some of my favorite soft core / mid core sites I have noticed that many of the models are not as beautiful as in the old days (2007 - 2013?).

Did I get too jaded?

Is it the absence of Russian models?

Is it all in my mind?

04-21-15  09:49pm - 76 days The most beautiful sight in the world. (3 Posts) - #3
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Originally Posted by graymane:


Count on PU's unmatched romance cretic , Sir messmer, to give us all a long-awaited, but needed wakeup call to the importance of, always valued, timely treasured, and true essence bestowal of his welcomed slices of real romance in this prevailing "slam-bam-thank you-ma'am" collection of entrenched smut moguls in an industry riding on a matter of stolen beliefs ..... all of which done by we'uns in the name of love.

Pardon my drift, if you will, if I'm leaning too hard on these guys dishing us this stuff ....but mess's poignant, touchy-feelie heart-rendering little story jus' stirred my attention.

BTW, mess ..... congrats on your practice consummating an orgasm for your partners ..... I don't think I've ever advanced to that stage. Maybe I too ought to begin lookin' at doing some of that! But how does one go about leavin'em with that "unfocused, soft look in their eyes after the orgasm."?


Hey, partner! Concerning your last paragraph, I think I was helped by nature. A) Sex was always romantic .. I am not built for casual sex. B) I am a devout cunnilinguist and C) I got as much of a kick out of turning on my partner as I did out of my own personal satisfaction, so I simply didn't stop until that incredible softness manifested itself, accompanied by the usual dead give-aways of an orgasm. There is nothing better than to bring someone so important to you, emotionally, to a state that temporarily transcends "real" life.

I think I just embarrassed myself carrying on like that. As I wrote, I am caught up in my past at the moment ... And am mourning a bit for what no longer is, and can be!

04-20-15  09:38pm - 77 days The most beautiful sight in the world. (3 Posts) - Original Post - #1
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The most beautiful sight in the world.

For me it was always the unfocused, soft look in my lover's eyes after an orgasm.

After all these years it will be a sight I'll never forget. Or holding close her taut, beloved body. Ah, youth, where did you go?

No need to reply, just having a look back with a sigh! Carpe Diem!

04-14-15  06:18pm - 84 days Is Skype selling users' addresses? (4 Posts) - #5
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Originally Posted by anyonebutme:


Don't worry about it, MS did not sell your username to sweet.barbie nor boy.toy.

People with nothing better to do with their lives create scripts that run through all possible usernames for hits, and when one does hit, it's flagged as a hit.

It doesn't make the situation better, but it's just like your email address getting hit by spam. Your ISP didn't sell you out, a script either scraping email addresses from elsewhere, or randomly forming addresses, sent the spam to you.


Thanks for the info. I still can't get it through my head how that could be done. A skype address is completely different from an email address. Let's assume that I used my fake name: peter messmer and registered with Skype under peter.messmer, then it would be within the realm of possibility. But how could a script ever get a hold of my address using my real name, which in the case of Skype usually means first and last name, separated by a period. I use Skype twice a year. I don't use facebook or twitter where some script could harvest someone's real name and try some permutations? I am really puzzled by the whole thing.

04-14-15  06:09pm - 84 days Is Skype selling users' addresses? (4 Posts) - #4
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Originally Posted by Khan:


I doubt anything was leaked or that the spam was targeted. My wife keeps Skype on and typically gets several spam "talk" requests per day.

just my


Your wife, too, eh? Still can't figure how it is done!

04-11-15  03:18pm - 87 days Is Skype selling users' addresses? (4 Posts) - Original Post - #1
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Is Skype selling users' addresses?

Twice during the past week I've had complete unknowns ask to talk to me on Skype. Only my brother knows my address, so how did sweet.barbie and boy.toy (not their real handles but close) get a hold of it? Spam on Skype is deplorable. I wonder who on their staff sold them out?

04-11-15  03:04pm - 87 days Italian Friends on the Bus (181 Posts) - #173
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Originally Posted by pat362:


You have to watch the video until the end. I can guarantee that you will piss yourself laughing.

http://safeshare.tv/w/sLtCVDmZnm


Hilarious, Pat!

04-10-15  10:08am - 88 days Cameramen just keep slippin' and slidin' over their own flaws. (4 Posts) - #2
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Originally Posted by graymane:


Yesterday I saw a foot adjoined to a leg, shot right out there on a hardcore scene in progress. I know it wasn't a third-party performer because his lower limbs are clothed in jeans with torso slightly clad in a plaid shirt.
You get far-to-many shoots sprouting shadows all over the place from lackluster camera-work.
Needless to say those kind of added attractions wasn't purposely injected to add overtime to the cameraman's pay-check .... and certainly not put there to provide erotic appeal to the scene.


You must be subscribing to "Girls Out West," graymane. The owner of the site, Annie, almost made it her trade mark to be in a scene. Either partially or fully. It shocked me the first few times I saw it but because I liked what she filmed I learned to put up with the casual atmosphere.

And I agree with you when it comes to glances to the camera for direction! Very annoying!

04-09-15  06:19pm - 89 days Still alive! (38 Posts) - #39
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Originally Posted by big barrel 05:


Get better soon man

The list:
well except for being tall all the others are easily obtainable, though you forgot wealthy as well.

just remember:
"Every woman wants to bang a hung Bruce Wayne!"


Thanks for the kind words, bb5!

You are right about the wealthy, but they are only a large niche within the niche of romance novels. I have read quite a few of the Billionaire stories, but there are other categories as well .. containing everyday male protagonists, from SEALS and Marines (quite popular) to firemen, policemen, artists and artisans etc. etc. who don't make it into the rich category.

Re. your quotation re. Bruce Wayne. There is one thing I forgot in my list, (thanks for reminding me) and that is the above average... ahem ... "package" of the hero.

This should have been number two or even number one in my rather arbitrary listing, because I have yet to come across a modern (containing graphic sex scenes)romance novel where the average male is average in that department.

I guess that's why the women authors keep stressing size .. there might be something slightly lacking when it comes to their own, personal heroes so they like to fantasize about it in fiction.

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03-30-15  01:12pm - 99 days Still alive! (38 Posts) - #37
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Originally Posted by biker:


Time catches us all. It brings with it a lot of ailments. It spares no one. In my forties, my eyes started to become farsighted and my legs began to have severe cramps. Now in my sixties I have to take a vitamin B-12 supplement and my ears have a ringing in them. What waits beyond is anyone's guess.

Time brings other things if we have an open mind. Wisdom, patience and tolerance. I wish I had more of these in my youth. It would have made life much easier for me and those around me who had deal with my lack of them. Sadly, patience seems to be diminishing again as I find myself yelling at my computer for being so slow. As if I don't have all the time in the world to do the foolish things I use it for.

Since I have started participating At PU I notice that the good things that time has to offer are present in the members here. That is made abundantly clear by the posts I enjoy reading as I scan the topics brought up here. As always, thank you Khan and those who work with you for providing a place to express myself freely without being judged. Here's hoping everyone's capacity is never diminished to prevent you all from being a participant to PU and to those who created it.


Hi Biker, I agree with you wholeheartedly about the civility in this group. Who would have ever thought that one could express one's feelings, and its symptoms about old age in a porn lovers group. In my first post, revealing my true age, I expected some unkind or sneering replies but should have known better because everyone who participated in the forum at that time was very kind and supportive.

BTW, I disagree with you about the wisdom, patience and tolerance old age is supposed to bring with it. I'm still impatient, I am far from wise because I forget the lessons that my past should have taught me. Tolerance, mmmh, maybe! But then I've always believed in "live and let live!"

03-30-15  12:58pm - 99 days Still alive! (38 Posts) - #36
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Originally Posted by pat362:


I have another amazing series that I discovered while looking for something new to read. It is by Jessica Clare and it's the Billionaire series. These are more straight forward romance novels than 50 shades and crossfire but there is some amazing writing involved with well defined characters and engaging plot points.


Thanks for the tip, Pat. I must look up Jessica Clare. I have 2 or 3 "billionaire series" on my iPad already and have enjoyed most of the books. I'll be happy to add another one to the collection.

P.S. Just did a quick search on my Kindle app and it appears that I have the first two books of Jessica Clare's Billionaire series already .. add a horrible memory to my list of complaints. I will definitely get the rest of that series since the first two books were great.

03-26-15  06:48pm - 103 days Still alive! (38 Posts) - #29
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Originally Posted by graymane:


From hurricane Alley here on the East coast, be assured I'm one of the most enthusiastic and happiest PU warriors seeing you again here on the battleground of porn, who, among other likeminded PU brethren's, exerting our all to improve it's place in this prevailing segment of societal acceptance .... but mostly to again witness the pleasure of this visit from one of our best -- naturally and with full honors bestowal to the threading author of this visit.
My admiration bears no limit to the praise deserving of you for the absolute caring you're continuing to implement to helping your wife's needs.
Her condition is reminisce of my own, in my case (without a caregiver) accompanies a mercilessly continued breakdown of bodily function and pain that has me now progressively within sight of a nursing home.


Hello, old friend. So good to see your post. It has been one of those weeks where I had next to no time to look into the forum, so forgive me for the delayed response.

No need for admiration re. caring for my wife. Caring comes naturally after 50+ years of her spoiling me rotten .. that sort of thing promotes a love where nothing is too much when it comes to looking after her welfare. Despite all her physical problems she still, to this day, does an awful lot for me as well. Yep, with me too, the inevitable, gradual breakdown is taking place. So, we look after one another, and are glad that we still have each other for another day.

I am so sorry that you have reached the stage where you have to look at the possibility of going into a nursing home. Not my favorite choice, that's for sure. Wish there were some magic wand I could wave to make you feel better, in lieu of wizardry, though, have my assurance that you are in my thoughts and not forgotten by your forum pal.

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03-18-15  06:42pm - 111 days Still alive! (38 Posts) - #27
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^ So good to see a post from you, Cap'n! I was wondering if you had dropped out and am so happy to see that you are still around this forum.

Too bad about our niche! Even though my libido has decreased greatly I still appreciate the beauty of a natural woman and would subscribe to "our" site in a minute.

Sad news, for me! Since I am getting older by the day and don't want my heirs to find tons of porn after I absent myself I just got finished deleting 3.5 TB of material on three external drives.

I formatted the drives and gave them to my grandsons as a premature gift. It hurt, but you can't take your porn with you, or so I've heard. And don't let me depress you with my blather, I'm not .. just being realistic and thinking ahead.

I certainly don't spend my days worrying about what might come and take it one day at a time instead.

It really makes my night, hearing from you, old friend!

03-15-15  02:15pm - 114 days Still alive! (38 Posts) - #25
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Originally Posted by lk2fireone:


I just did a google search.

The last time it snowed in my part of LA county was February 26, 2011.
Snow accumulations around 3 inches were present.

Snow on the ground may only occur about every five to ten years.

But we do get earthquakes.


Normally I like our climate with its distinct four seasons but this year all of us are so tired of a brutally cold (in the East of Canada) and snowy winter that I wouldn't mind one bit moving to Southern California!!

03-15-15  10:46am - 114 days Still alive! (38 Posts) - #22
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Originally Posted by rearadmiral:


We're on the coast too (in SJ) and would normally have a winter more like you get but this year we had all snow after January 24. Prior to that we were shaping up for the best winter ever. The, after January 24 we had a major storm every three days. We have some drifts here that are 10 feet tall. I'm pushing 49 years and have never seen anything like this. And the forecast isn't really showing spring coming any time soon.

And we're getting the storm today too. It's a bit demoralizing but some folks around here say that winter isn't over until we have our St. Patrick's Day storm. I'm hoping this is it.


For some reason most major storms this season have gone up the Bay of Fundy, leaving you with snow and us with snow changing to rain. At least along the coast. If it hadn't been for that major flash freeze a few weeks ago there wouldn't be much snow on the ground. Strange, what a difference a couple of kilometers can make.

I looked out the window around 4:30 am and we were in the middle of a major blizzard but things have eased up already. The winds are still quite strong but it is hardly snowing now. Given our mutual weird weather this year I think spring is still quite far off.

03-15-15  10:37am - 114 days Still alive! (38 Posts) - #21
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Originally Posted by Drooler:


Hey, Messmer! Good to hear from you! Sounds like you've been dealing with major problems. Hope things work out eventually!

Oh, and there's one thing about your list. Most of the women I've been with do like cunnilingus, but don't be surprised if you run into one that doesn't. I used to know one. I'm just saying, if you ever do, say "Hello" for me.


Hey, Drooler,

good to hear from you, too. As to your remarks re. cunnilingus I am sure there are exceptions to the rule. I just know that with the multitude of women authors I read during the past year, every single one made cunnilingus an essential part of foreplay, good for the first orgasm or two!

03-14-15  10:50am - 115 days Still alive! (38 Posts) - #18
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Originally Posted by rearadmiral:


Welcome back Sir! Are you still living in Halifax? If so, the winter there must have added to your problems. We had it bad in southern NB but you had that rain and flash freeze which I've heard has made some streets unusable. But spring has to come soon!


Thanks for the welcome back, rearadmiral. We didn't get the snow New Brunswick did. Living near the coast ensures that our snow storms usually turn to freezing rain or rain. But that flash freeze was something else. Many side walks are unusable to this moment and our snowbanks turned into ice banks that are impossible to remove. I think we'll be stuck with them until May! Another big snow storm forecast for tonight and tomorrow! Aaargh!

03-14-15  10:44am - 115 days Still alive! (38 Posts) - #17
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Originally Posted by pat362:


^I've been reading romance novels since my early 20's. I used to love the harlequin novels because they were small and easy to read. At the time I was the night manager of a Hilton and there were many long hours where there wasn't a lot to do so a nice romance novel was perfect to pass the time and it didn't bother me if I had to put it down for an hour and start where I left off. The only negative thing is that since they were tiny than I needed to buy new ones fairly regularly as I can read rather quickly.

I can't really recommend Crossfire because I didn't enjoy it as much as I did 50 shades. The female character in crossfire is better defined but I didn't like her as much as Anastasia. It also doesn't help a whole lot that both protagonist were sexually abused as young children, That keeps coming up as to why they are the way they are. Add the fact that Sylvia decided to do 5 novels instead of only 3 and the only way she got around doing that is by generating useless drama that gets repeated in multiple novels do stretch the story beyond the already hard to believe premise.


Thanks for the tip on "Crossfire," Pat. You just saved me 50 Dollars plus because I tend to trust your taste from long experience.

03-13-15  10:28am - 116 days Still alive! (38 Posts) - #13
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Originally Posted by pat362:


I've always been a huge fan of romance novels. I have no problem confessing that I really enjoy them and as a bonus it gives me some great insight on how women's brain work. I started reading the Harlequin series and then migrated to mostly Joanna Lindsey. The theme of the Harlequin books was often a cold distant alpha male who needed the love and understanding of a beautiful woman to thaw his cold heart. Joanna offered more variety and stronger female roles to her heroine and the sex was significantly more descriptive.

Needless to say that 50 Shades and it's ilk is pure female porn where some of the sex is quite descriptive but not so much that a woman can't put herself in the place of the female protagonist. I can't help but feel that some of the authors are trying distinguish themselves from the pack by being way too descriptive and crude. If you read the Crossfire series of books than be prepared to read the word C.nt (I'm not even comfortable writing it all the way) used quite often by the alpha male to describe the sexual organ of the woman he claims to love. Call me old fashion, call me a prude but I can think of many more stimulating words to use to describe a vagina other than what I consider to be an insulting word in any conversation.

At least the alpha male in both 50 Shades and Crossfire aren't opposed to marriage because both of them get married within just a few months of meeting their true love. In fact I think both are the ones pressuring the woman to marry them.

Try to not be a stranger even if it's just to say hello.


Yes, regarding the first Harlequins I read, the "Hero" tended to be distant, arrogant, even cruel and abusive at times but turned out, toward the end of the book, to be a nice guy who had erected "walls" to protect himself from being hurt. I could never understand the heroine taking the verbal and emotional abuse for so long. But I got away from the handful of authors who wrote that way and now dwell with gentler folks.

As to the Crossfire series. I had my finger on the buy button until I decided to read the reviews. Apparently this was originally supposed to be a trilogy and people were very upset that Sylvia Day decided to stretch the series in order to cash in on its success. Many of us don't like to end up with cliff hangers, so I'll wait until she is finally done before I hit that "send book" on Amazon.ca button.

And I applaud your bravery for revealing that you like romances! It took me 77 years to be tempted into trying one because a MAN just didn't read romances. What chauvinist hogwash .. some of those books are darned good.

BTW, I agree with you when it comes crudeness. I can well do without it. Well, I think I've just about used up my time here. If you should reply, I'll be happy to respond sometime next week or maybe even Sunday night.

03-13-15  10:05am - 116 days Still alive! (38 Posts) - #12
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Originally Posted by elephant:


Nice to hear from you Messmer. Hope things look up for you and your wife soon, sorry to hear things haven't been great for you.


Thanks for your kind words, elephant! We certainly hope that we'll have a better year, healthwise, in 2015, and that I'll be able to come back full time to this fine group! Edited on Mar 13, 2015, 10:30am

03-12-15  12:43pm - 117 days Still alive! (38 Posts) - #9
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Originally Posted by Ed2009:


Good to hear from you Messmer. You've been a regular here since before I even found this site.

Hope you start getting some positive results soon.


Thanks, Ed. I always enjoyed your contributions and hope that you'll continue to move in these civil and courteous circles. I'll most likely be in and out for a while longer until we see if my wife's treatments, which will start at the end of March, will do any good.

03-12-15  12:35pm - 117 days Still alive! (38 Posts) - #8
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Originally Posted by pat362:


I am really glad to hear from you messmer. I really miss the old gang that populated the forum. I enjoy many of the new blood that joined us over the years but the first ones still hold a special place in my heart. I wish you had better news for the us but I would rather hear bad news from you than no news at all. I really hope that 2015 is a significantly better year for your wife and you.

Here is what I have learned (or confirmed) from reading the Fifty Shades of Grey novels and almost finishing with The Crossfire ones as well.

Women want a man that will treat them badly but be troubled by it because deep down he really loves them. It's just that he was sexually abused as a child by someone they trusted who took advantage of their innocence. Of course he must be not only rich but billionaire rich, so beautiful that all men look like toads compared to him, a complete sex machine that can get an erection on command and fuck all night long and still be able to start all over again in the morning (of course without the use of chemicals), He must closed off and distant but yet be opened to discuss any subject the woman wants to talk about, He has to be cold and remote and also be super romantic and loving, He has to be hung, He must know her body better than she knows it, he must want to satisfy her sexually and know exactly how to go about it, he must know about fashion and be willing to share his expert knowledge with her and lastly he must be under the age of thirty.

Mind you if you are going to fantasize than why not shoot for the moon. Men should be as lucky as women when it comes to our fantasy. They get a rich, good looking man with an amazing dick who knows how to sexually satisfy them, loves to talk afterwards on various subjects but fashion is a must who also wants to give them the world and can afford to do it and most importantly was no one until they found and rescued him from his troubled past.

All we get is a barely out of her teen girl getting fucked by multiple guys in every orifice in her body all the while pretending that she really likes it but looking the opposite. I'll take the women's fantasy over ours any day.


LOL. You summed things up nicely, Pat. I started with Fifty Shades Of Grey and found your description of this category of romance right on the mark.

In the meantime I've discovered other categories where the Alpha Male is less arrogant and troubled and I prefer those.

There's the Billionaire category where the heroes are considerably gentler than in 50SOG, there is the Fireman category, the Sheikh category, the Texan Cowboy category, the Sports hero category, the Rock Star category, the SEAL category (especially popular during the Iraq war.

And then, as a sub-category you get the family series which can go to up to twelve books as one sibling after the other gets a book in which he falls in love and lives happily ever after and if you run out of siblings you discover a side branch that has more of them. (The Andersons, The Westmorelands etc.)

All of the new romances have two things in common, they are as steamy as they can get without crossing the line into pornography, and all the heroes are originally "unwilling to commit!"

Oh, yes, I forgot to mention this in my original post: and every hero has a super-sized "package!" So much for the oft proclaimed lie (by women) that size doesn't matter!

Well, what can I say re. my love of new romances. Most are light-hearted (with the exception of the BDSM category), have some light drama in them to keep them interesting, and give me a happy ending.

I do need some sunshine in my life these days, until my perfect site finally comes on line! Not only that, but my testosterone level is at an all-time low and I'll need a Manzeer (see Seinfeld) soon, so why not develop a liking for women's softcore material!

And I agree, I too miss the old gang, so I am glad to see some newcomers and some folks like you who stuck with it.

m. Edited on Mar 12, 2015, 12:39pm

03-12-15  12:10pm - 117 days Still alive! (38 Posts) - #7
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Originally Posted by biker:


Sorry to here that Messmer. As Khan said, "Our good wishes are with you and yours."


Thank you, as well, biker.

03-12-15  12:09pm - 117 days Still alive! (38 Posts) - #6
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Originally Posted by Khan:


Messmer, glad to hear you're hanging in there, if not ideally. Know our thoughts and good wishes are with you and your family.


Thank you, Khan.

03-11-15  02:10pm - 118 days Still alive! (38 Posts) - Original Post - #1
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Still alive!

Don't think you've been forgotten, my esteemed forum buddies. Things have not been exactly ideal for us (mostly for my wife!) Between doctor's appointments, tests like MRIs, bone scans, ultrasounds, blood work ... aargh .. there hasn't been a week that we haven't been going from one place to the other, without any positive results so far.

I'm not going to bother your eyes with a count of all the things that are wrong at the moment, just saying that it leaves little time to even think about porn. I have looked in occasionally but was even to tired (disheartened) to start a thread or to respond. Just let me say that you've been sorely missing from my daily routine because this has been my home away from home, as far as forums go, for years.

So, Cap'n, did you find our site yet? Has the pendulum swung back? I have a mitt-full of money just waiting to be spent on soft-/midcore sites where women go from fully clothed, to erotic lingerie, to fully nude!! So, all right, you didn't need me to spell it out again .. just trying to refresh memories!

As an aside, learned while reading Kindle erotic romances in waiting rooms:

1) Women like tall and dark Alphas, (6-6'2")
2) Women like abs and pecs and six packs,(no not beer),
3) Women go by scent much more than men do,
4) Women love erotic, silky lingerie, (hooray!)
5) Women adore cunnilingus ...

so if you're lacking in any of those departments, get on with it. Too late for me, though!

Greetings to all,

m.

05-12-14  07:14pm - 421 days Forgive me Father for I have sinned .....again (6 Posts) - #2
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I grew up in a predominantly Roman Catholic area of Germany and still remember one travelling Friar who had made it his vocation to preach in the Market Square about the evils of masturbation and its inevitable road to physical and spiritual ruin!

One good thing about Mother Church's desire to keep the flock pure was a bulletin board, also in the same square, giving a run down on the movies currently playing in local theatres and the moral damage they might do to the parishioners. Those marked "forbidden" usually drew the biggest crowds and were an invaluable guide to teenage males.

04-28-14  11:01pm - 434 days Do people who like Cuckolds also enjoy Trannys? (10 Posts) - #5
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Cuckolds could be a sub section of BDSM ... the submissive aspect, but I don't see any tie-in with trannies.

04-14-14  11:06am - 449 days "The Interview: ..Just one of the simular real ways I see it done (5 Posts) - #6
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Great job as usual, old pal. And right on target. Those sleezy would-be pornographers and their staged interviews are enough to sour you on porn for good. That's why I like to stick with the more reputable "soft/midpornish" sites ... and hate it once they start going hardcore.

04-06-14  11:12pm - 456 days What sites have provided you with your most watched/viewed videos or pics (8 Posts) - #7
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This is all in the past:

ATK Natural & Hairy - now a bizarre and overpriced fetish site catering to excessive body hair enthusiasts.

WeAreHairy: see above.

Aunt Judy's: most updates originate in ATK N&H. Uninspiring photography.

AllOver 30: Low erotic value in boring picture sets at present. Most of their photographers copy each other by dressing their models in utilitarian 3 to 4 pieces of clothing, taken off within the first twenty pictures. Sexy lingerie appears to be a thing of the past. Used to be my favorite.

21Sextreme: I used to subscribe frequently because of my interest in mature women but their pool of models has shrunk dramatically to maybe 6 or 7 regulars and with one update a week (Lusty Grandmas) that's not enough!

Sigh! Until the times change I am afraid I am not a member of any site at present. Edited on Apr 06, 2014, 11:17pm

03-16-14  12:37pm - 478 days Striptease - A Poorly Catered for Niche. (262 Posts) - #273
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By reading some of the posts again I can see that we actually have two different camps when it comes to the subject.

The first camp wants a strip tease in the sense of a woman gradually divesting herself of her clothes in an ordinary setting, while the second camp is more purist and thinks of poles and lap dances and tassels (maybe out of fashion by now).

Needless to say I belong to the former.

03-16-14  12:28pm - 478 days Chapter one: The calm before the storm. And this is not about the weather (25 Posts) - #15
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Hey, graymane, old friend. I just came across your post and am in great empathy when it comes to all the stuff you are going through at the moment.

You have effectively stilled my complaining because I can't even begin to imagine what your day must be like. The thought of all those botched operations and misdiagnoses is enough to give one nightmares.

Your neck and spine operations make me happy that I never considered the option of having surgery in two of my problem areas! I preferred to take pain relievers instead, but the time might come yet when, just like you, I no longer have that choice.

I'm with you in spirit, brother .. just wish I could somehow help. I hope your day today is reasonably tolerable.

Warmest regards,

m.

03-16-14  12:17pm - 478 days "Your porn is not Canadian enough" (16 Posts) - #4
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The requirement for a certain percentage of Canadian content in Radio and Television was introduced at a time when it seemed that our culture was being swallowed up by Hollywood. Our talent kept going south because that is where the money was and where they had the best opportunity to succeed. This is the reason behind the establishment of the CRTC. In my personal opinion they have not accomplished their goal. Canadian movies and TV shows are being churned out by the hundreds each year but nobody (hardly anybody) watches them.

There have been some break-through movies and shows that were actually quite good but chances are most Canadians will not see them because they still instinctively go for the American shows.

There is rebellious muttering among the unwashed masses about storming the Bastille of CRTC Headquarters and doing away with this inflexible insistence on a certain percentage of Canadian content on what we listen to and view.

There is certainly discontent among Netflix users who are forced to watch the Canadian version that features far less choices. I automatically click on every Canadian movie "not interested" when asked to rate movies but regrettably that does not do away with them.

The talent has always been there, it's the money to put out a top quality product that is missing.

The recent proclamation that a certain percentage of porn on TV had to be "Canadian" (actors, locations) left me stunned and deeply embarrassed about the idiots in charge of the Canadian Radio And Television Commission (CRTC).

They just managed to make us the laughing stock of the world.

02-08-14  10:54am - 514 days A Modest Proposal (16 Posts) - #4
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^Pat's version wins, hands down!

02-08-14  10:48am - 514 days So ladies, what follows the tattoo craze? Here's a thought. (19 Posts) - #18
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Originally Posted by pat362:


^I wonder if the stocking and garter industry has seen a boost in sales in recent years from producers requiring that their models wear them to hide all their tattoos. I seem to recall seeing more and more models wear them in shoots where I know the model has them on her thighs and legs.


I suppose that might work if they use really dark stockings, made of heavier material than nylon. For some of the models they would also have to be extra long.

02-07-14  11:05am - 515 days So ladies, what follows the tattoo craze? Here's a thought. (19 Posts) - #16
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Originally Posted by TheSquirrel:


Personally I prefer all over blue skin, pink skin, whatever, than those awful tats. You've probably all seen the horrendous sight of a body virtually all covered in tattoos.

Orion slave girls from Star Trek, yum!


Being a stockings and garter belt lover I am offended the most when I see the tattoo of a heart (or whatever) peeking out from the top of a stocking. It ruins the whole image ... literally.

02-07-14  10:57am - 515 days ATK/Amkingdom.com?? (12 Posts) - #10
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Originally Posted by pat362:


I see it differently than you because I think that unlike a video starring the same person(s). Photo shoots where the same model is doing about the same thing, in about the same location she has done elsewhere is more duplication than anything else because there's literally isn't much that's different from one shoot to the next. The only exception would be if the shoots are in different locations and/or if the model is wearing different clothes from one site to the next but that last one will soon look like all the others once the model is nude.


I have been leaving comments like that on pretty well all of their sites, as well as on similar sites that feature their type of material. There is nothing wrong with the models being nude at the end of the set, I look forward to that, but the whole journey to nude is missing because the models usually wear three items of clothing and shed those within the first 20 or so pictures, leaving you a hundred pictures of almost identical "nude." This is certainly overkill, and turns what could be an erotic strip into a meat market.

01-29-14  11:12am - 524 days Thoroughly disgusted! (17 Posts) - #15
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Originally Posted by turboshaft:


Sorry to hear your troubles, messmer (and I thought this would be your disgust with a site).

Whatever you do, don't give a site your "good" address--that is for your normal, day-to-day email--give them your older, spammed-up one. You should also have this for non-porn marketing stuff that requires an email, if only for completion purposes, but not something that would really ever need checking (signing up for a forum, etc.).

And as much as I love PU I still gave them my spam email address when I signed up, and I only check it once every few weeks if that (while hoping Khan never sends pertinent messages that way though I check PU way more regularly). Even "a popular and highly rated" site should not get your normal address since you don't really know what they're doing with it. Better safe than sorry.

Interestingly, at least in the U.S., Google does let you set up a new phone number for free, called Voice, (as long as you have a Gmail account, d'oh!) that I've also used on occasion for sites that have wanted a phone number and I don't feel like giving out my sacred cell #. It comes through my cell phone but I have it ID'ed as "Google Voice" to let me know it's probably a machine or from something/someone I don't want contacting me.

On a side note, on my normal, non-spam email I have gotten the occasional legitimate email tossed into their spam label (Googlespeak for folder). Otherwise little actual spam, and not very serious spam at that--no Nigerian princes or "guaranteed" penis enlargement offers...yet.


Thanks for the tips, turbo. Actually, just like you, I never use my good address in connection with any porn site or Billing Company. My real name goes to the Billing Company, of course, since I do all my transactions through a rechargeable credit card issued to me by my bank. I don't know if CCBill or Epoch etc. actually pass on my real name to a site. The massive Spam attacks were all on my throw-away google account that I had used for years. When this finally irritated me enough I got a new throw-away address, again through Google, and was blissfully left alone until I made my next subscription with the new one.

If Epoch, CCBill etc. do not pass on real names to the sites then I lay all my past problems at their feet because I received tons of spam under my real name in the past.

01-28-14  06:39pm - 525 days Thoroughly disgusted! (17 Posts) - #11
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Originally Posted by RagingBuddhist:


I've had Yahoo mail almost since I've had a computer. I don't know about others but I would assume Yahoo isn't the only one with the ability to create disposable email addresses. Sign up using a throwaway, then delete it once you're done with the site. You can't get spammed if they can't find you!


Sounds like an idea, RB!

01-28-14  06:38pm - 525 days Thoroughly disgusted! (17 Posts) - #10
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Originally Posted by jook:


Maybe I'm just lucky, but I don't think so. Almost no spam makes it through to my inbox with gmail. I've used the same address since the inception of gmail (when you needed an invite ) and have subscribed to more porn than I care to remember using the gmail address. The problem used to be worse but I'm guessing that between gmail's filters and my flagging spam over the years, that did the trick.


I thought I had replied, jook, but can't find my response, so here goes again:

Spam hardly ever makes it to my Inbox either because gmail's filter is quite good. Nevertheless I still have to go to my spam folder to see if any legitimate emails were caught by those filters by mistake and then eliminate the works.

01-28-14  06:28pm - 525 days Thoroughly disgusted! (17 Posts) - #9
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Originally Posted by Drooler:


Yeah, right, "We don't sell your email address to anyone," so gimme-gimme spammy-spammy wasn't me!

Those slimeballs should be wrapped in Visqueen and set on fire!


I go along with that, Drooler.

BTW, if you get spam at the moment have you noticed the weird names they are using nowadays?

For a while I had all kinds of female friends who wanted to remind me of a past relationship and how eager they were to re-establish contact, they in turn were followed by a couple of weeks, or so, of renewed "You have won 1st Prize" (One even by the Secretary General of the UN!!) or "I need help transferring a large amount of money out of my country and would be more than happy to give you a cut if ... etc.etc." emails.

And now it is spam sent under weird names like (made up by me as an example) "sj'klo." Would anyone even be tempted to look at an email like that?

01-28-14  06:13pm - 525 days Thoroughly disgusted! (17 Posts) - #7
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Originally Posted by Cybertoad:


Lets say I joined a site that oh has a Twist to it and another that must have the Sex of the Century.
Both times these two sites tripled my spam.

Could have been billing as was said but have used these biller's before.


Spammers ! FUCK YOU FUCK FUCK FUCK !

HEHE, One of the few forums I belong to were you can say,
Shit, fuck , pussy and Cock and not get banned !


Young man, you go right now and wash out your mouth (typing fingers) with soap. Appalling manners!

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