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04-14-15  06:18pm - 4 days Is Skype selling users' addresses? (4 Posts) - #5
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Originally Posted by anyonebutme:


Don't worry about it, MS did not sell your username to sweet.barbie nor boy.toy.

People with nothing better to do with their lives create scripts that run through all possible usernames for hits, and when one does hit, it's flagged as a hit.

It doesn't make the situation better, but it's just like your email address getting hit by spam. Your ISP didn't sell you out, a script either scraping email addresses from elsewhere, or randomly forming addresses, sent the spam to you.


Thanks for the info. I still can't get it through my head how that could be done. A skype address is completely different from an email address. Let's assume that I used my fake name: peter messmer and registered with Skype under peter.messmer, then it would be within the realm of possibility. But how could a script ever get a hold of my address using my real name, which in the case of Skype usually means first and last name, separated by a period. I use Skype twice a year. I don't use facebook or twitter where some script could harvest someone's real name and try some permutations? I am really puzzled by the whole thing.

04-14-15  06:09pm - 4 days Is Skype selling users' addresses? (4 Posts) - #4
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Originally Posted by Khan:


I doubt anything was leaked or that the spam was targeted. My wife keeps Skype on and typically gets several spam "talk" requests per day.

just my


Your wife, too, eh? Still can't figure how it is done!

04-11-15  03:18pm - 7 days Is Skype selling users' addresses? (4 Posts) - Original Post - #1
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Is Skype selling users' addresses?

Twice during the past week I've had complete unknowns ask to talk to me on Skype. Only my brother knows my address, so how did sweet.barbie and boy.toy (not their real handles but close) get a hold of it? Spam on Skype is deplorable. I wonder who on their staff sold them out?

04-11-15  03:04pm - 7 days Italian Friends on the Bus (173 Posts) - #173
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Originally Posted by pat362:


You have to watch the video until the end. I can guarantee that you will piss yourself laughing.

http://safeshare.tv/w/sLtCVDmZnm


Hilarious, Pat!

04-10-15  10:08am - 9 days Cameramen just keep slippin' and slidin' over their own flaws. (4 Posts) - #2
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Originally Posted by graymane:


Yesterday I saw a foot adjoined to a leg, shot right out there on a hardcore scene in progress. I know it wasn't a third-party performer because his lower limbs are clothed in jeans with torso slightly clad in a plaid shirt.
You get far-to-many shoots sprouting shadows all over the place from lackluster camera-work.
Needless to say those kind of added attractions wasn't purposely injected to add overtime to the cameraman's pay-check .... and certainly not put there to provide erotic appeal to the scene.


You must be subscribing to "Girls Out West," graymane. The owner of the site, Annie, almost made it her trade mark to be in a scene. Either partially or fully. It shocked me the first few times I saw it but because I liked what she filmed I learned to put up with the casual atmosphere.

And I agree with you when it comes to glances to the camera for direction! Very annoying!

04-09-15  06:19pm - 9 days Still alive! (38 Posts) - #39
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Originally Posted by big barrel 05:


Get better soon man

The list:
well except for being tall all the others are easily obtainable, though you forgot wealthy as well.

just remember:
"Every woman wants to bang a hung Bruce Wayne!"


Thanks for the kind words, bb5!

You are right about the wealthy, but they are only a large niche within the niche of romance novels. I have read quite a few of the Billionaire stories, but there are other categories as well .. containing everyday male protagonists, from SEALS and Marines (quite popular) to firemen, policemen, artists and artisans etc. etc. who don't make it into the rich category.

Re. your quotation re. Bruce Wayne. There is one thing I forgot in my list, (thanks for reminding me) and that is the above average... ahem ... "package" of the hero.

This should have been number two or even number one in my rather arbitrary listing, because I have yet to come across a modern (containing graphic sex scenes)romance novel where the average male is average in that department.

I guess that's why the women authors keep stressing size .. there might be something slightly lacking when it comes to their own, personal heroes so they like to fantasize about it in fiction.

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03-30-15  01:12pm - 19 days Still alive! (38 Posts) - #37
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Originally Posted by biker:


Time catches us all. It brings with it a lot of ailments. It spares no one. In my forties, my eyes started to become farsighted and my legs began to have severe cramps. Now in my sixties I have to take a vitamin B-12 supplement and my ears have a ringing in them. What waits beyond is anyone's guess.

Time brings other things if we have an open mind. Wisdom, patience and tolerance. I wish I had more of these in my youth. It would have made life much easier for me and those around me who had deal with my lack of them. Sadly, patience seems to be diminishing again as I find myself yelling at my computer for being so slow. As if I don't have all the time in the world to do the foolish things I use it for.

Since I have started participating At PU I notice that the good things that time has to offer are present in the members here. That is made abundantly clear by the posts I enjoy reading as I scan the topics brought up here. As always, thank you Khan and those who work with you for providing a place to express myself freely without being judged. Here's hoping everyone's capacity is never diminished to prevent you all from being a participant to PU and to those who created it.


Hi Biker, I agree with you wholeheartedly about the civility in this group. Who would have ever thought that one could express one's feelings, and its symptoms about old age in a porn lovers group. In my first post, revealing my true age, I expected some unkind or sneering replies but should have known better because everyone who participated in the forum at that time was very kind and supportive.

BTW, I disagree with you about the wisdom, patience and tolerance old age is supposed to bring with it. I'm still impatient, I am far from wise because I forget the lessons that my past should have taught me. Tolerance, mmmh, maybe! But then I've always believed in "live and let live!"

03-30-15  12:58pm - 19 days Still alive! (38 Posts) - #36
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Originally Posted by pat362:


I have another amazing series that I discovered while looking for something new to read. It is by Jessica Clare and it's the Billionaire series. These are more straight forward romance novels than 50 shades and crossfire but there is some amazing writing involved with well defined characters and engaging plot points.


Thanks for the tip, Pat. I must look up Jessica Clare. I have 2 or 3 "billionaire series" on my iPad already and have enjoyed most of the books. I'll be happy to add another one to the collection.

P.S. Just did a quick search on my Kindle app and it appears that I have the first two books of Jessica Clare's Billionaire series already .. add a horrible memory to my list of complaints. I will definitely get the rest of that series since the first two books were great.

03-26-15  06:48pm - 23 days Still alive! (38 Posts) - #29
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Originally Posted by graymane:


From hurricane Alley here on the East coast, be assured I'm one of the most enthusiastic and happiest PU warriors seeing you again here on the battleground of porn, who, among other likeminded PU brethren's, exerting our all to improve it's place in this prevailing segment of societal acceptance .... but mostly to again witness the pleasure of this visit from one of our best -- naturally and with full honors bestowal to the threading author of this visit.
My admiration bears no limit to the praise deserving of you for the absolute caring you're continuing to implement to helping your wife's needs.
Her condition is reminisce of my own, in my case (without a caregiver) accompanies a mercilessly continued breakdown of bodily function and pain that has me now progressively within sight of a nursing home.


Hello, old friend. So good to see your post. It has been one of those weeks where I had next to no time to look into the forum, so forgive me for the delayed response.

No need for admiration re. caring for my wife. Caring comes naturally after 50+ years of her spoiling me rotten .. that sort of thing promotes a love where nothing is too much when it comes to looking after her welfare. Despite all her physical problems she still, to this day, does an awful lot for me as well. Yep, with me too, the inevitable, gradual breakdown is taking place. So, we look after one another, and are glad that we still have each other for another day.

I am so sorry that you have reached the stage where you have to look at the possibility of going into a nursing home. Not my favorite choice, that's for sure. Wish there were some magic wand I could wave to make you feel better, in lieu of wizardry, though, have my assurance that you are in my thoughts and not forgotten by your forum pal.

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03-18-15  06:42pm - 31 days Still alive! (38 Posts) - #27
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^ So good to see a post from you, Cap'n! I was wondering if you had dropped out and am so happy to see that you are still around this forum.

Too bad about our niche! Even though my libido has decreased greatly I still appreciate the beauty of a natural woman and would subscribe to "our" site in a minute.

Sad news, for me! Since I am getting older by the day and don't want my heirs to find tons of porn after I absent myself I just got finished deleting 3.5 TB of material on three external drives.

I formatted the drives and gave them to my grandsons as a premature gift. It hurt, but you can't take your porn with you, or so I've heard. And don't let me depress you with my blather, I'm not .. just being realistic and thinking ahead.

I certainly don't spend my days worrying about what might come and take it one day at a time instead.

It really makes my night, hearing from you, old friend!

03-15-15  02:15pm - 34 days Still alive! (38 Posts) - #25
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Originally Posted by lk2fireone:


I just did a google search.

The last time it snowed in my part of LA county was February 26, 2011.
Snow accumulations around 3 inches were present.

Snow on the ground may only occur about every five to ten years.

But we do get earthquakes.


Normally I like our climate with its distinct four seasons but this year all of us are so tired of a brutally cold (in the East of Canada) and snowy winter that I wouldn't mind one bit moving to Southern California!!

03-15-15  10:46am - 35 days Still alive! (38 Posts) - #22
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Originally Posted by rearadmiral:


We're on the coast too (in SJ) and would normally have a winter more like you get but this year we had all snow after January 24. Prior to that we were shaping up for the best winter ever. The, after January 24 we had a major storm every three days. We have some drifts here that are 10 feet tall. I'm pushing 49 years and have never seen anything like this. And the forecast isn't really showing spring coming any time soon.

And we're getting the storm today too. It's a bit demoralizing but some folks around here say that winter isn't over until we have our St. Patrick's Day storm. I'm hoping this is it.


For some reason most major storms this season have gone up the Bay of Fundy, leaving you with snow and us with snow changing to rain. At least along the coast. If it hadn't been for that major flash freeze a few weeks ago there wouldn't be much snow on the ground. Strange, what a difference a couple of kilometers can make.

I looked out the window around 4:30 am and we were in the middle of a major blizzard but things have eased up already. The winds are still quite strong but it is hardly snowing now. Given our mutual weird weather this year I think spring is still quite far off.

03-15-15  10:37am - 35 days Still alive! (38 Posts) - #21
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Originally Posted by Drooler:


Hey, Messmer! Good to hear from you! Sounds like you've been dealing with major problems. Hope things work out eventually!

Oh, and there's one thing about your list. Most of the women I've been with do like cunnilingus, but don't be surprised if you run into one that doesn't. I used to know one. I'm just saying, if you ever do, say "Hello" for me.


Hey, Drooler,

good to hear from you, too. As to your remarks re. cunnilingus I am sure there are exceptions to the rule. I just know that with the multitude of women authors I read during the past year, every single one made cunnilingus an essential part of foreplay, good for the first orgasm or two!

03-14-15  10:50am - 36 days Still alive! (38 Posts) - #18
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Originally Posted by rearadmiral:


Welcome back Sir! Are you still living in Halifax? If so, the winter there must have added to your problems. We had it bad in southern NB but you had that rain and flash freeze which I've heard has made some streets unusable. But spring has to come soon!


Thanks for the welcome back, rearadmiral. We didn't get the snow New Brunswick did. Living near the coast ensures that our snow storms usually turn to freezing rain or rain. But that flash freeze was something else. Many side walks are unusable to this moment and our snowbanks turned into ice banks that are impossible to remove. I think we'll be stuck with them until May! Another big snow storm forecast for tonight and tomorrow! Aaargh!

03-14-15  10:44am - 36 days Still alive! (38 Posts) - #17
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Originally Posted by pat362:


^I've been reading romance novels since my early 20's. I used to love the harlequin novels because they were small and easy to read. At the time I was the night manager of a Hilton and there were many long hours where there wasn't a lot to do so a nice romance novel was perfect to pass the time and it didn't bother me if I had to put it down for an hour and start where I left off. The only negative thing is that since they were tiny than I needed to buy new ones fairly regularly as I can read rather quickly.

I can't really recommend Crossfire because I didn't enjoy it as much as I did 50 shades. The female character in crossfire is better defined but I didn't like her as much as Anastasia. It also doesn't help a whole lot that both protagonist were sexually abused as young children, That keeps coming up as to why they are the way they are. Add the fact that Sylvia decided to do 5 novels instead of only 3 and the only way she got around doing that is by generating useless drama that gets repeated in multiple novels do stretch the story beyond the already hard to believe premise.


Thanks for the tip on "Crossfire," Pat. You just saved me 50 Dollars plus because I tend to trust your taste from long experience.

03-13-15  10:28am - 37 days Still alive! (38 Posts) - #13
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Originally Posted by pat362:


I've always been a huge fan of romance novels. I have no problem confessing that I really enjoy them and as a bonus it gives me some great insight on how women's brain work. I started reading the Harlequin series and then migrated to mostly Joanna Lindsey. The theme of the Harlequin books was often a cold distant alpha male who needed the love and understanding of a beautiful woman to thaw his cold heart. Joanna offered more variety and stronger female roles to her heroine and the sex was significantly more descriptive.

Needless to say that 50 Shades and it's ilk is pure female porn where some of the sex is quite descriptive but not so much that a woman can't put herself in the place of the female protagonist. I can't help but feel that some of the authors are trying distinguish themselves from the pack by being way too descriptive and crude. If you read the Crossfire series of books than be prepared to read the word C.nt (I'm not even comfortable writing it all the way) used quite often by the alpha male to describe the sexual organ of the woman he claims to love. Call me old fashion, call me a prude but I can think of many more stimulating words to use to describe a vagina other than what I consider to be an insulting word in any conversation.

At least the alpha male in both 50 Shades and Crossfire aren't opposed to marriage because both of them get married within just a few months of meeting their true love. In fact I think both are the ones pressuring the woman to marry them.

Try to not be a stranger even if it's just to say hello.


Yes, regarding the first Harlequins I read, the "Hero" tended to be distant, arrogant, even cruel and abusive at times but turned out, toward the end of the book, to be a nice guy who had erected "walls" to protect himself from being hurt. I could never understand the heroine taking the verbal and emotional abuse for so long. But I got away from the handful of authors who wrote that way and now dwell with gentler folks.

As to the Crossfire series. I had my finger on the buy button until I decided to read the reviews. Apparently this was originally supposed to be a trilogy and people were very upset that Sylvia Day decided to stretch the series in order to cash in on its success. Many of us don't like to end up with cliff hangers, so I'll wait until she is finally done before I hit that "send book" on Amazon.ca button.

And I applaud your bravery for revealing that you like romances! It took me 77 years to be tempted into trying one because a MAN just didn't read romances. What chauvinist hogwash .. some of those books are darned good.

BTW, I agree with you when it comes crudeness. I can well do without it. Well, I think I've just about used up my time here. If you should reply, I'll be happy to respond sometime next week or maybe even Sunday night.

03-13-15  10:05am - 37 days Still alive! (38 Posts) - #12
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Originally Posted by elephant:


Nice to hear from you Messmer. Hope things look up for you and your wife soon, sorry to hear things haven't been great for you.


Thanks for your kind words, elephant! We certainly hope that we'll have a better year, healthwise, in 2015, and that I'll be able to come back full time to this fine group! Edited on Mar 13, 2015, 10:30am

03-12-15  12:43pm - 37 days Still alive! (38 Posts) - #9
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Originally Posted by Ed2009:


Good to hear from you Messmer. You've been a regular here since before I even found this site.

Hope you start getting some positive results soon.


Thanks, Ed. I always enjoyed your contributions and hope that you'll continue to move in these civil and courteous circles. I'll most likely be in and out for a while longer until we see if my wife's treatments, which will start at the end of March, will do any good.

03-12-15  12:35pm - 37 days Still alive! (38 Posts) - #8
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Originally Posted by pat362:


I am really glad to hear from you messmer. I really miss the old gang that populated the forum. I enjoy many of the new blood that joined us over the years but the first ones still hold a special place in my heart. I wish you had better news for the us but I would rather hear bad news from you than no news at all. I really hope that 2015 is a significantly better year for your wife and you.

Here is what I have learned (or confirmed) from reading the Fifty Shades of Grey novels and almost finishing with The Crossfire ones as well.

Women want a man that will treat them badly but be troubled by it because deep down he really loves them. It's just that he was sexually abused as a child by someone they trusted who took advantage of their innocence. Of course he must be not only rich but billionaire rich, so beautiful that all men look like toads compared to him, a complete sex machine that can get an erection on command and fuck all night long and still be able to start all over again in the morning (of course without the use of chemicals), He must closed off and distant but yet be opened to discuss any subject the woman wants to talk about, He has to be cold and remote and also be super romantic and loving, He has to be hung, He must know her body better than she knows it, he must want to satisfy her sexually and know exactly how to go about it, he must know about fashion and be willing to share his expert knowledge with her and lastly he must be under the age of thirty.

Mind you if you are going to fantasize than why not shoot for the moon. Men should be as lucky as women when it comes to our fantasy. They get a rich, good looking man with an amazing dick who knows how to sexually satisfy them, loves to talk afterwards on various subjects but fashion is a must who also wants to give them the world and can afford to do it and most importantly was no one until they found and rescued him from his troubled past.

All we get is a barely out of her teen girl getting fucked by multiple guys in every orifice in her body all the while pretending that she really likes it but looking the opposite. I'll take the women's fantasy over ours any day.


LOL. You summed things up nicely, Pat. I started with Fifty Shades Of Grey and found your description of this category of romance right on the mark.

In the meantime I've discovered other categories where the Alpha Male is less arrogant and troubled and I prefer those.

There's the Billionaire category where the heroes are considerably gentler than in 50SOG, there is the Fireman category, the Sheikh category, the Texan Cowboy category, the Sports hero category, the Rock Star category, the SEAL category (especially popular during the Iraq war.

And then, as a sub-category you get the family series which can go to up to twelve books as one sibling after the other gets a book in which he falls in love and lives happily ever after and if you run out of siblings you discover a side branch that has more of them. (The Andersons, The Westmorelands etc.)

All of the new romances have two things in common, they are as steamy as they can get without crossing the line into pornography, and all the heroes are originally "unwilling to commit!"

Oh, yes, I forgot to mention this in my original post: and every hero has a super-sized "package!" So much for the oft proclaimed lie (by women) that size doesn't matter!

Well, what can I say re. my love of new romances. Most are light-hearted (with the exception of the BDSM category), have some light drama in them to keep them interesting, and give me a happy ending.

I do need some sunshine in my life these days, until my perfect site finally comes on line! Not only that, but my testosterone level is at an all-time low and I'll need a Manzeer (see Seinfeld) soon, so why not develop a liking for women's softcore material!

And I agree, I too miss the old gang, so I am glad to see some newcomers and some folks like you who stuck with it.

m. Edited on Mar 12, 2015, 12:39pm

03-12-15  12:10pm - 38 days Still alive! (38 Posts) - #7
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Originally Posted by biker:


Sorry to here that Messmer. As Khan said, "Our good wishes are with you and yours."


Thank you, as well, biker.

03-12-15  12:09pm - 38 days Still alive! (38 Posts) - #6
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Originally Posted by Khan:


Messmer, glad to hear you're hanging in there, if not ideally. Know our thoughts and good wishes are with you and your family.


Thank you, Khan.

03-11-15  02:10pm - 38 days Still alive! (38 Posts) - Original Post - #1
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Still alive!

Don't think you've been forgotten, my esteemed forum buddies. Things have not been exactly ideal for us (mostly for my wife!) Between doctor's appointments, tests like MRIs, bone scans, ultrasounds, blood work ... aargh .. there hasn't been a week that we haven't been going from one place to the other, without any positive results so far.

I'm not going to bother your eyes with a count of all the things that are wrong at the moment, just saying that it leaves little time to even think about porn. I have looked in occasionally but was even to tired (disheartened) to start a thread or to respond. Just let me say that you've been sorely missing from my daily routine because this has been my home away from home, as far as forums go, for years.

So, Cap'n, did you find our site yet? Has the pendulum swung back? I have a mitt-full of money just waiting to be spent on soft-/midcore sites where women go from fully clothed, to erotic lingerie, to fully nude!! So, all right, you didn't need me to spell it out again .. just trying to refresh memories!

As an aside, learned while reading Kindle erotic romances in waiting rooms:

1) Women like tall and dark Alphas, (6-6'2")
2) Women like abs and pecs and six packs,(no not beer),
3) Women go by scent much more than men do,
4) Women love erotic, silky lingerie, (hooray!)
5) Women adore cunnilingus ...

so if you're lacking in any of those departments, get on with it. Too late for me, though!

Greetings to all,

m.

05-12-14  07:14pm - 341 days Forgive me Father for I have sinned .....again (6 Posts) - #2
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I grew up in a predominantly Roman Catholic area of Germany and still remember one travelling Friar who had made it his vocation to preach in the Market Square about the evils of masturbation and its inevitable road to physical and spiritual ruin!

One good thing about Mother Church's desire to keep the flock pure was a bulletin board, also in the same square, giving a run down on the movies currently playing in local theatres and the moral damage they might do to the parishioners. Those marked "forbidden" usually drew the biggest crowds and were an invaluable guide to teenage males.

04-28-14  11:01pm - 355 days Do people who like Cuckolds also enjoy Trannys? (10 Posts) - #5
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Cuckolds could be a sub section of BDSM ... the submissive aspect, but I don't see any tie-in with trannies.

04-14-14  11:06am - 370 days "The Interview: ..Just one of the simular real ways I see it done (5 Posts) - #6
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Great job as usual, old pal. And right on target. Those sleezy would-be pornographers and their staged interviews are enough to sour you on porn for good. That's why I like to stick with the more reputable "soft/midpornish" sites ... and hate it once they start going hardcore.

04-06-14  11:12pm - 377 days What sites have provided you with your most watched/viewed videos or pics (8 Posts) - #7
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This is all in the past:

ATK Natural & Hairy - now a bizarre and overpriced fetish site catering to excessive body hair enthusiasts.

WeAreHairy: see above.

Aunt Judy's: most updates originate in ATK N&H. Uninspiring photography.

AllOver 30: Low erotic value in boring picture sets at present. Most of their photographers copy each other by dressing their models in utilitarian 3 to 4 pieces of clothing, taken off within the first twenty pictures. Sexy lingerie appears to be a thing of the past. Used to be my favorite.

21Sextreme: I used to subscribe frequently because of my interest in mature women but their pool of models has shrunk dramatically to maybe 6 or 7 regulars and with one update a week (Lusty Grandmas) that's not enough!

Sigh! Until the times change I am afraid I am not a member of any site at present. Edited on Apr 06, 2014, 11:17pm

03-16-14  12:37pm - 398 days Striptease - A Poorly Catered for Niche. (260 Posts) - #273
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By reading some of the posts again I can see that we actually have two different camps when it comes to the subject.

The first camp wants a strip tease in the sense of a woman gradually divesting herself of her clothes in an ordinary setting, while the second camp is more purist and thinks of poles and lap dances and tassels (maybe out of fashion by now).

Needless to say I belong to the former.

03-16-14  12:28pm - 398 days Chapter one: The calm before the storm. And this is not about the weather (25 Posts) - #15
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Hey, graymane, old friend. I just came across your post and am in great empathy when it comes to all the stuff you are going through at the moment.

You have effectively stilled my complaining because I can't even begin to imagine what your day must be like. The thought of all those botched operations and misdiagnoses is enough to give one nightmares.

Your neck and spine operations make me happy that I never considered the option of having surgery in two of my problem areas! I preferred to take pain relievers instead, but the time might come yet when, just like you, I no longer have that choice.

I'm with you in spirit, brother .. just wish I could somehow help. I hope your day today is reasonably tolerable.

Warmest regards,

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03-16-14  12:17pm - 399 days "Your porn is not Canadian enough" (16 Posts) - #4
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The requirement for a certain percentage of Canadian content in Radio and Television was introduced at a time when it seemed that our culture was being swallowed up by Hollywood. Our talent kept going south because that is where the money was and where they had the best opportunity to succeed. This is the reason behind the establishment of the CRTC. In my personal opinion they have not accomplished their goal. Canadian movies and TV shows are being churned out by the hundreds each year but nobody (hardly anybody) watches them.

There have been some break-through movies and shows that were actually quite good but chances are most Canadians will not see them because they still instinctively go for the American shows.

There is rebellious muttering among the unwashed masses about storming the Bastille of CRTC Headquarters and doing away with this inflexible insistence on a certain percentage of Canadian content on what we listen to and view.

There is certainly discontent among Netflix users who are forced to watch the Canadian version that features far less choices. I automatically click on every Canadian movie "not interested" when asked to rate movies but regrettably that does not do away with them.

The talent has always been there, it's the money to put out a top quality product that is missing.

The recent proclamation that a certain percentage of porn on TV had to be "Canadian" (actors, locations) left me stunned and deeply embarrassed about the idiots in charge of the Canadian Radio And Television Commission (CRTC).

They just managed to make us the laughing stock of the world.

02-08-14  10:54am - 435 days A Modest Proposal (16 Posts) - #4
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^Pat's version wins, hands down!

02-08-14  10:48am - 435 days So ladies, what follows the tattoo craze? Here's a thought. (19 Posts) - #18
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Originally Posted by pat362:


^I wonder if the stocking and garter industry has seen a boost in sales in recent years from producers requiring that their models wear them to hide all their tattoos. I seem to recall seeing more and more models wear them in shoots where I know the model has them on her thighs and legs.


I suppose that might work if they use really dark stockings, made of heavier material than nylon. For some of the models they would also have to be extra long.

02-07-14  11:05am - 436 days So ladies, what follows the tattoo craze? Here's a thought. (19 Posts) - #16
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Originally Posted by TheSquirrel:


Personally I prefer all over blue skin, pink skin, whatever, than those awful tats. You've probably all seen the horrendous sight of a body virtually all covered in tattoos.

Orion slave girls from Star Trek, yum!


Being a stockings and garter belt lover I am offended the most when I see the tattoo of a heart (or whatever) peeking out from the top of a stocking. It ruins the whole image ... literally.

02-07-14  10:57am - 436 days ATK/Amkingdom.com?? (12 Posts) - #10
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Originally Posted by pat362:


I see it differently than you because I think that unlike a video starring the same person(s). Photo shoots where the same model is doing about the same thing, in about the same location she has done elsewhere is more duplication than anything else because there's literally isn't much that's different from one shoot to the next. The only exception would be if the shoots are in different locations and/or if the model is wearing different clothes from one site to the next but that last one will soon look like all the others once the model is nude.


I have been leaving comments like that on pretty well all of their sites, as well as on similar sites that feature their type of material. There is nothing wrong with the models being nude at the end of the set, I look forward to that, but the whole journey to nude is missing because the models usually wear three items of clothing and shed those within the first 20 or so pictures, leaving you a hundred pictures of almost identical "nude." This is certainly overkill, and turns what could be an erotic strip into a meat market.

01-29-14  11:12am - 445 days Thoroughly disgusted! (17 Posts) - #15
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Originally Posted by turboshaft:


Sorry to hear your troubles, messmer (and I thought this would be your disgust with a site).

Whatever you do, don't give a site your "good" address--that is for your normal, day-to-day email--give them your older, spammed-up one. You should also have this for non-porn marketing stuff that requires an email, if only for completion purposes, but not something that would really ever need checking (signing up for a forum, etc.).

And as much as I love PU I still gave them my spam email address when I signed up, and I only check it once every few weeks if that (while hoping Khan never sends pertinent messages that way though I check PU way more regularly). Even "a popular and highly rated" site should not get your normal address since you don't really know what they're doing with it. Better safe than sorry.

Interestingly, at least in the U.S., Google does let you set up a new phone number for free, called Voice, (as long as you have a Gmail account, d'oh!) that I've also used on occasion for sites that have wanted a phone number and I don't feel like giving out my sacred cell #. It comes through my cell phone but I have it ID'ed as "Google Voice" to let me know it's probably a machine or from something/someone I don't want contacting me.

On a side note, on my normal, non-spam email I have gotten the occasional legitimate email tossed into their spam label (Googlespeak for folder). Otherwise little actual spam, and not very serious spam at that--no Nigerian princes or "guaranteed" penis enlargement offers...yet.


Thanks for the tips, turbo. Actually, just like you, I never use my good address in connection with any porn site or Billing Company. My real name goes to the Billing Company, of course, since I do all my transactions through a rechargeable credit card issued to me by my bank. I don't know if CCBill or Epoch etc. actually pass on my real name to a site. The massive Spam attacks were all on my throw-away google account that I had used for years. When this finally irritated me enough I got a new throw-away address, again through Google, and was blissfully left alone until I made my next subscription with the new one.

If Epoch, CCBill etc. do not pass on real names to the sites then I lay all my past problems at their feet because I received tons of spam under my real name in the past.

01-28-14  06:39pm - 445 days Thoroughly disgusted! (17 Posts) - #11
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Originally Posted by RagingBuddhist:


I've had Yahoo mail almost since I've had a computer. I don't know about others but I would assume Yahoo isn't the only one with the ability to create disposable email addresses. Sign up using a throwaway, then delete it once you're done with the site. You can't get spammed if they can't find you!


Sounds like an idea, RB!

01-28-14  06:38pm - 445 days Thoroughly disgusted! (17 Posts) - #10
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Originally Posted by jook:


Maybe I'm just lucky, but I don't think so. Almost no spam makes it through to my inbox with gmail. I've used the same address since the inception of gmail (when you needed an invite ) and have subscribed to more porn than I care to remember using the gmail address. The problem used to be worse but I'm guessing that between gmail's filters and my flagging spam over the years, that did the trick.


I thought I had replied, jook, but can't find my response, so here goes again:

Spam hardly ever makes it to my Inbox either because gmail's filter is quite good. Nevertheless I still have to go to my spam folder to see if any legitimate emails were caught by those filters by mistake and then eliminate the works.

01-28-14  06:28pm - 445 days Thoroughly disgusted! (17 Posts) - #9
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Originally Posted by Drooler:


Yeah, right, "We don't sell your email address to anyone," so gimme-gimme spammy-spammy wasn't me!

Those slimeballs should be wrapped in Visqueen and set on fire!


I go along with that, Drooler.

BTW, if you get spam at the moment have you noticed the weird names they are using nowadays?

For a while I had all kinds of female friends who wanted to remind me of a past relationship and how eager they were to re-establish contact, they in turn were followed by a couple of weeks, or so, of renewed "You have won 1st Prize" (One even by the Secretary General of the UN!!) or "I need help transferring a large amount of money out of my country and would be more than happy to give you a cut if ... etc.etc." emails.

And now it is spam sent under weird names like (made up by me as an example) "sj'klo." Would anyone even be tempted to look at an email like that?

01-28-14  06:13pm - 445 days Thoroughly disgusted! (17 Posts) - #7
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Originally Posted by Cybertoad:


Lets say I joined a site that oh has a Twist to it and another that must have the Sex of the Century.
Both times these two sites tripled my spam.

Could have been billing as was said but have used these biller's before.


Spammers ! FUCK YOU FUCK FUCK FUCK !

HEHE, One of the few forums I belong to were you can say,
Shit, fuck , pussy and Cock and not get banned !


Young man, you go right now and wash out your mouth (typing fingers) with soap. Appalling manners!

01-28-14  02:41pm - 445 days Thoroughly disgusted! (17 Posts) - #3
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Originally Posted by Ed2009:


I've had a couple of e-mail addresses over the years which I set up to use exclusively with payment processors. In every case I've ended up getting spam on each address within a couple of weeks.

It's interesting to hear that someone else has had similar problems. Every payment processor I've ever used on my sites has always insisted that they never sell on e-mail lists.

I can't vouch for other sites, but I can assure everyone that I have never even considered selling members' email addresses.


Thanks, Ed. I guess we found the culprit!

01-28-14  11:09am - 446 days Thoroughly disgusted! (17 Posts) - Original Post - #1
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Thoroughly disgusted!

I got myself a new gmail address a few weeks ago because I was being overwhelmed with spam at my old one. Everything went well, not a single spam email in almost two weeks, pure bliss, then I subscribed to my first site under the new address and found myself with 25 spam emails the very next day. I know which site I subscribed to (quite a popular and highly rated one) but don't want to leave myself open to any potential legal problems because it could have been the Payment Processor as well. I guess the only way to live without spam is to NOT subscribe to anything!! Arrrgh!!!

01-24-14  12:28pm - 449 days Is it just me .... (17 Posts) - #18
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Originally Posted by turboshaft:


I agree, partly because I have a few tattoos myself (but not implants ) and I'm not one for imbibing in the whole tattoos-are-ugly trope, and also because I know plenty of real, non-porn women who have tattoos but not all the other body mods seen in porn.

I was reminded of my distaste the other day when I was looking at the photos on Lisa Ann's Twitter feed--ugh! Over sculpted/"toned" jawline and arms complemented by cartoonishly oversized breasts that look like they're almost as much for laughs as they are for lust. Most of her friends in the photos looked the same. They sport Grand Canyon cleavage engineered into dresses which look to be made out of spandex and Kevlar, lest those mammoth mammaries spill out and collapse into a black hole. And they look so hourglass-shaped that you think you're viewing a photo that was skewed in Photoshop or at one of those funhouse mirrors.

Don't get me wrong, I'm no fan of the pear-shaped, bottom-heavy female (though I'll let it slide for the more Rubenesque with pee fetishes), but transmogrifying yourself into a real life RealDoll is not attractive to me--it's fucking scary!

Just my angry , but maybe I need to stop complaining and go join AbbyWinters for awhile.


Keep on contributing your 2 cents, turbo, you done good!

01-24-14  12:24pm - 449 days Is it just me .... (17 Posts) - #17
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Originally Posted by biker:


I don't mind large breasts, but the implants are so unnatural. I have stated it before, it looks like two bowling balls stuck in there. I like soft curves, not hard ones that implants produce.


Yep, that's my problem, biker: the bowling ball look! Yet there are guys who drool at the thought of enhanceds, and give them to their wives/girlfriends/mistresses/lovers as a present and those poor, misguided, insecure women end up believing that they really improved their looks, based on the theory that bigger is better.

Wish more women would look into this forum now and then to get a more balanced view as to what is beautiful and what is grotesque.

01-24-14  12:19pm - 449 days Is it just me .... (17 Posts) - #16
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Originally Posted by Micha:


On many TGB sites there is a category for ugly women, I think if one were to spend some time there, they might develop a renewed appreciation for beauty.

Beauty, is I've heard, in the mind of the beholder.

Truth be told,most of the women appearing on those sites are not ugly.
A face that is often deemed by others to be ugly, I find as interesting and depicting what I would call character and a sense of fun. Wandering in the shops and malls, I often see women that I do not think are attractive, who seem not to have a shortage of attractive male suitors in attendance. Go figure.

Often, tooling that cyber place, seeking women in various stages of undress, my eye is often caught by faces, bodies and personae that are not runway model material but rather pretty, smart and fun, depicting what I consider to be a great sense of life. They look healthy.
That is what I find attractive.


You spoke right out of my heart, Micha. Couldn't have put it better myself.

01-19-14  10:47am - 455 days I hate that progression .... (11 Posts) - #10
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Originally Posted by Cybertoad:


There have been any great softcore semi-nude famous models that turned to porn and their careers ended.

THere were many Girl next door ones that guys drooled to get a nip or ass shot. They then went nude and were never heard of.

In porn there is no going back, it clear you jump over the proverbial porn fence often at the peril of your adult career,
Then some jump and become famous, but odds are stacked against it.


Well, that's an unexpected angle to the story, CT. I had no idea that turning progressively "harder" could actually end a model's career. Learn something new every day.

01-19-14  10:43am - 455 days Jb's Blog (54 Posts) - #55
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Originally Posted by Cybertoad:


Just had to post this after admiring your other photos.




Now make that a full figure shot and that picture has my vote!

01-19-14  10:40am - 455 days Is it just me .... (17 Posts) - #12
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Originally Posted by elephant:


But yeah tastes, mine certainly do but one thing I will always hate and to be honest really cannot believe the amount of American girls who look so unbelievably gorgeous and they go and ruin it by having these hideous tattoos, well for me they ruin it, I know some people must like them, I really don't get what is good about them at all an never will. But it does effect it if I favorite a girl, very few tat honeys on my list.

Oh and another thing I don't quite understand with American girls, is having a big booty and how women with huge butts are more favored. I have to say, its not my thing at all.


Tattoos don't bother me half as much as those so-called "enhanced" breasts. You see them mostly in American models and I despise them. Any set or video that features enhanced automatically will get a one out of five or even ten from me, no matter how pretty the face or rest of the figure may be.

01-19-14  10:32am - 455 days The Way You Get Internet Porn is About to Change (55 Posts) - #30
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Originally Posted by Cybertoad:


Yea, I agree, people are angry, rude and often just don't give a shit about their fellow man/woman.
Very hard at times to grow up in a polite country where we respected our elders, and held doors open and said please and thank you. Thats why I like my adult material especially the intimate stuff and stripping why rare, gives a soft sexy look that is slowly being taken over by POV shots of labias for 20 minutes no face not body just pussy play . Oh well guess I have said enough on this.


Can't argue with that statement, CT!

01-18-14  11:05am - 456 days The Way You Get Internet Porn is About to Change (55 Posts) - #27
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Originally Posted by Cybertoad:


Life was so easy back in 1979.
You could own a gun and people didn't freak out, you could by a playboy and it was fun not dirty. You could go to bars to hang out with friends and not be considered a drunk.

You could rob a liquor store and keep the money, lol ok not the last one seeing who is paying attention.

Some good stuff has occured but seems we are making problems where there are none. Guns, booze and porn have been around hundreds of years together living fine. Then everyone wants to regulate and criminalize what good people do. And not stop the bad people.

The people whom deal in human trafficking,sell and use drugs and run illegal arms, all occur with little sins of ending. And laws never stop the bad guys.

Kinda like in South Cal, the who condom thing, whose business is it ? Its not the governments right to pry into my life.

PS I brought the booze thing as they are now considering changing regulations on alcohol consumption, and also how you protest against law makers is in the lawmaker hands as we speak. As I have said you regulate one Right, and you open the flood gates. I do doubt porn will be open as it is. just too much going on to leave it out of the playing field,


I think one of the big reasons why Government tends to intervene more than in previous decades is because our society has turned angry, confrontational, lawless (look at all the cases of road rage, mass shootings, bullying (cyber- and otherwise). The reason? Who knows? Some blame the Internet and applications (phones etc.) that allow you to be your nasty self anonymously and the fact that you are no longer interacting with your fellow man in person.

Is it any wonder (to touch upon one of your favorite subjects) that in the light of all those senseless mass killings in movie theaters, schools etc., governments are tempted to impose stricter controls? And, of course, Governments being governments they do tend to get carried away with their righteous causes. Good thing we get to vote every 4 (in your case), 5 years.

01-17-14  03:00pm - 456 days Is it just me .... (17 Posts) - #3
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Originally Posted by FibiLove Co:


You have gotten used to that level of beauty, there is nothing special about them anymore.
Seems like you are starting to acquire more exquisite tastes. I deleted a tonne of pics I had because the girls just don't look as good as I once thought they did.


I think you hit the nail right on the head, FL, because I did the same thing:

"What did I ever see in HER? Delete!" and that particular model was slumbering in a folder called "Favorites!"

01-17-14  02:45pm - 456 days Jb's Blog (54 Posts) - #50
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Just another voice telling you how much I enjoy your blog, JB!

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