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11-07-13  10:11pm - 312 days Original Post - #1
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What makes a real man?

Carried over from another thread ...

The question came up:
What do *you* feel makes a man a "real man"?

Everyone is invited to add their thoughts. Senior Administrator
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11-07-13  10:16pm - 312 days #2
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For starters, real men stand up for themselves and don't tuck tail and run to the hills when called out. 6 pack bitches, deal with it

11-07-13  10:35pm - 312 days #3
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Real men aren't blatant hypocrites 6 pack bitches, deal with it

11-07-13  11:03pm - 312 days #4
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Originally Posted by Thedebilman666:


For starters, real men stand up for themselves and don't tuck tail and run to the hills when called out.


Eh, it's the internet. I would think getting called out by someone a person doesn't know and who doesn't know them, is the least of most people's worries. Not to mention, what does a person receive for winning an argument with someone they will never meet?

Which is one thing I think makes a real man. Got to know when to hold 'em, know when to fold 'em, know when to walk away and have a beard “You cannot blame porn. When I was young, I used to masturbate to Gilligan's Island.” - Ron Jeremy

11-07-13  11:54pm - 312 days #5
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Originally Posted by exotics4me:


Eh, it's the internet. I would think getting called out by someone a person doesn't know and who doesn't know them, is the least of most people's worries. Not to mention, what does a person receive for winning an argument with someone they will never meet?


Not just on the internet, I see it happen on a daily basis in real life, experience it myself from time to time. 6 pack bitches, deal with it

11-08-13  07:05am - 312 days #6
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It should be pointed out that the Internet is not real life but a cyber life.

lol - I mean, look at the forum this is taking place on - a porn forum and porn is not real life. It's a fantasy place made cause you can't fuck your gf in the ass and then have her suck your cock (or whatever rocks your world and can't find at home or in your community).

What you're really talking about is personality, which doesn't define gender or the way the a "man" is suppose to act. In real life there is a mix of personalities that men have from being macho (think NFL Players linemen is a good example) where the T is huge and then there are the sensitive guys who see the value in being non-confrontational.

I figure we're all men regardless of demeanor unless we're dressing as a girl or getting hormone treatments to become one.

There are members here that will not argue with someone regardless of what they might post, even if it becomes personal. When one persists with the "calling out", it makes them look like is a bully.

beautifulrock took time to take exception to something I posted and basically called me out but I refused to respond. Was it because I can't argue or afraid I can't substantiate my position? Hardly.** It's just not the type of dialogue one generally finds going on in this forum.

Up until recently I played WOW everyday for about five years. One of the things I recognized from playing the game is, it's not real life.

** The second thing is - don't feed the trolls. If it ain't grits, it must be a Yankee.

If you're going to lay her head over the pool table and fuck her throat, get your fucking hand off her throat!

11-08-13  10:13am - 312 days #7
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11-08-13  10:18am - 312 days #8
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Originally Posted by jberryl69:




** The second thing is - don't feed the trolls.


How is calling someone out on their hypocritical bs being a troll? If you noticed a little pattern here, I only "troll" the hypocrites. 6 pack bitches, deal with it

11-08-13  10:47am - 312 days #9
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11-08-13  12:04pm - 312 days #10
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For me this thread just isn't for cyber space, it mainly focuses on real life

Real men serve their country 6 pack bitches, deal with it

11-08-13  01:08pm - 312 days #11
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11-08-13  02:00pm - 312 days #12
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^ Brilliant marketing strategy, you're gonna make millions.

jberyl69, that's how you troll somebody. And if you want to get technical, everyone's ass I chewed out around here trolled upon me first. 6 pack bitches, deal with it Edited on Nov 08, 2013, 02:28pm

11-08-13  02:05pm - 312 days #13
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Real men earn the respect of others. There are any number of ways to earn respect, and just as many ways to loose it.

11-08-13  02:31pm - 312 days #14
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Real men tailor their actions to fit the circumstances. Life is more complicated than having only one reaction to everything. Me, when someone shows they act in a way that shows their true nature to be one I can't reason with, I walk away. The reason is that I gave up trying to change people a long time ago.

If I can't have a civil discussion, then why continue? They are not listening to what I have to say anyway.

My feeling is that they do not deserve respect. The ultimate act of disrespect is to force them to argue alone in an empty room.

11-08-13  04:03pm - 312 days #15
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One thing I try to do is respect people. This was something I was taught early in life, but conveniently forgot as I started to live a life of self-interest. For a long time I lived with "What's in it for me" attitude. Well that attitude caught up with me and I needed to learn to respect others all over again, with some much needed help. Make that a lot of help from some very patient people. I have discovered how it feels to get respect in return. It feels good.
So, there is one slice of the pie that I feel makes me whole. I aim to misbehave

11-08-13  04:05pm - 312 days #16
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Real men will throw away (or give away) their porn collection for a woman they love 6 pack bitches, deal with it

11-08-13  04:52pm - 312 days #17
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11-08-13  04:54pm - 312 days #18
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Well that contradicts your postings in 'that' thread now doesn't it?

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11-08-13  04:58pm - 312 days #19
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Originally Posted by Thedebilman666:


And if you want to get technical, everyone's ass I chewed out around here trolled upon me first.


Where did I troll you then?

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11-08-13  05:18pm - 312 days #20
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Real men sleep on the wet spot. A: Do you use a computer every day?
B: Yes.
A: And how long have you been using a computer every day?
B: About 24 years.
A: You must be pretty bitter.

11-08-13  05:27pm - 312 days #21
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Originally Posted by Capn:


Where did I troll you then?

Cap'n.


When did I chew your ass out? 'Cause I didn't. 6 pack bitches, deal with it

11-08-13  05:28pm - 312 days #22
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Originally Posted by Capn:


Well that contradicts your postings in 'that' thread now doesn't it?

Cap'n.


Uh, no Cap'n genius, those are jokes. You know what a joke is, right? 6 pack bitches, deal with it

11-08-13  05:35pm - 312 days #23
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Originally Posted by Thedebilman666:


When did I chew your ass out? 'Cause I didn't.


So calling me a ball-less coward doesn't count then?

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11-08-13  05:36pm - 312 days #24
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Originally Posted by Thedebilman666:


Uh, no Cap'n genius, those are jokes. You know what a joke is, right?


Jokes are funny that thread is just abusive.

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11-08-13  05:49pm - 312 days #25
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Not all jokes are for everybody, now I know what stand up comics go through on a daily basis. If you noticed a little pattern in that thread, and want to look at with your logic, it's abusive towards religion and seems to offending quite a few people but at least they have the smarts not to bring up religion on a porn forum. And hey, you're my elder, act like it and quit quoting me to try to stir up the shit pot or you will get the proverbial ass chewing. I'm trying not to be like that anymore but you people around here make it impossible. It's worse than Nascar.com around here, holy shitters. And by the way, holy shitters is a figure of speech, I can see someone trying to say that's name calling around here. 6 pack bitches, deal with it Edited on Nov 08, 2013, 06:18pm

11-08-13  05:59pm - 312 days #26
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This is a forum so how does anyone know who we are talking to. I've been here for the last 6 years and I'm not smart enough to have created an internet personality that I could use for that long of a period so what you read is pretty much what I think. I tend to censor myself when I think I may have crossed a line or feel that I will by what I want to write but that's about as far as I've gone to alter some part of me.

I don't know what classifies as a real "internet" man but I do know what classifies as a respectful one. Some of the moderators on another forum use the following phrase when reprimanding a member whose language is not appropriate.
If you wouldn't say it to someone's face then don't write it. I take that and go one step further. If you wouldn't like someone to say this to you then why would you think someone else would like to hear it from you? Long live the Brown Coats.

11-08-13  06:33pm - 312 days #27
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Real men donate to charity, even if it's just the spare change they got back from the coffee they bought at Tim Horton's in the little box on the counter to whatever charity it happens to be.

* Another mind blowing coincidence, Bill Maher just made a reference to how good people donate to charity, posted a minute before air time (it's a live show), weird shit. 6 pack bitches, deal with it Edited on Nov 08, 2013, 08:29pm

11-09-13  05:50am - 311 days #28
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Originally Posted by Drooler:


Real men sleep on the wet spot.

If it ain't grits, it must be a Yankee.

If you're going to lay her head over the pool table and fuck her throat, get your fucking hand off her throat!

11-09-13  09:17am - 311 days #29
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Originally Posted by jberryl69:





Real women sleep on their backs ....
That means its not likely to be a "wet spot."

11-09-13  10:45am - 311 days #30
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Originally Posted by pat362:


If you wouldn't say it to someone's face then don't write it. I take that and go one step further. If you wouldn't like someone to say this to you then why would you think someone else would like to hear it from you?




If ever a profound phase, or collection of words forming a thought, quoted herewith and expressed by our Pat362, was ever more deserving (as an example) a place comparably chiseled onto a cyber Mount Rushmore, then it would be thus.
Thanks, Pat for resurrecting this all-important commandment.

11-09-13  11:38am - 311 days #31
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Real men can forgive 6 pack bitches, deal with it

11-09-13  12:28pm - 311 days #32
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11-09-13  12:29pm - 311 days #33
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11-09-13  02:25pm - 311 days #34
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Real men don't do drugs with their children 6 pack bitches, deal with it

11-09-13  03:41pm - 311 days #35
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Dammed, 666 .......

What a positive reversal I'm seeing in your demeanor showing up in these last few posts!
Have you been going to one of those Bible-thumpin' Tent Revivals?

11-09-13  03:55pm - 311 days #36
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Real men contribute to the PornUsers forum

11-10-13  12:24pm - 310 days #37
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Real men don't run away from their problems and face their inner demons and stomp them into the ground. 6 pack bitches, deal with it

11-10-13  02:15pm - 310 days #38
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Been there...Done that....

Kudos to you, for doing that!

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11-12-13  10:49pm - 307 days #40
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11-12-13  11:30pm - 307 days #41
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So Khan challenged me to this thread and yet has to make an addition. What gives? 6 pack bitches, deal with it

11-12-13  11:42pm - 307 days #42
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11-13-13  01:47am - 307 days #43
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Originally Posted by Thedebilman666:


Real men don't run away from their problems and face their inner demons and stomp them into the ground.


Nah, I kinda like some of my inner demons. Keeps life from getting too boring.

Originally Posted by Thedebilman666:


So Khan challenged me to this thread and yet has to make an addition. What gives?


I think he mentioned in another thread that he didn't want to contribute too much because it would give the impression that since a webmaster has a certain view then the entire site (including TheBestPorn) leaned that way as well, compromising it as a relatively unbiased review site. "It's incredibly obvious, isn't it? A foreign substance is introduced into our precious bodily fluids without the knowledge of the individual. Certainly without any choice. That's the way your hardcore Commie works." - Gen. Jack D. Rippper, Dr. Stranglove

11-13-13  02:08am - 307 days #44
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Originally Posted by Thedebilman666:


Real men donate to charity, even if it's just the spare change they got back from the coffee they bought at Tim Horton's in the little box on the counter to whatever charity it happens to be.


All charity isn't equal. Not to sound a greedy asshole, but simply giving money to an organization or cause may not be the best way to better the world. Numerous "charitable" groups have huge overhead with comfortably paid executives and less-than-stellar records of actually accomplishing anything.

Combine this with what I call conditional charity and it isn't all it's cracked up to be. For example, though the Salvation Army (frequently seen or heard around Christmas time with volunteers standing outside stores with a red kettle) does things like disaster relief through donations and volunteering they also maintain a rather dogmatic stance against everything gay or simply gay tolerant. I already wouldn't donate to them because they're a religious group, but even without that I don't need to "save the world" by way of slurring an already disadvantaged group.

Originally Posted by Thedebilman666:


* Another mind blowing coincidence, Bill Maher just made a reference to how good people donate to charity, posted a minute before air time (it's a live show), weird shit.


That was a hilarious and sad piece because so many prominent religious people seem to use the "It's all a part of God's plan" as an excuse to say to poor people that they're fucked for life anyway and therefore charity--or worse, government assistance!--won't do them any good. "It's incredibly obvious, isn't it? A foreign substance is introduced into our precious bodily fluids without the knowledge of the individual. Certainly without any choice. That's the way your hardcore Commie works." - Gen. Jack D. Rippper, Dr. Stranglove

11-13-13  08:27am - 307 days #45
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Originally Posted by turboshaft:


All charity isn't equal. Not to sound a greedy asshole, but simply giving money to an organization or cause may not be the best way to better the world....


Reading your post I was reminded of a quote:

"Virtue means doing the right thing, in relation to the right person, at the right time, to the right extent, in the right manner, and for the right purpose. Thus, to give money away is quite a simple take, but for the act to be virtuous, the donor must give to the right person, for the right purpose, in the right amount, in the right manner, and at the right time." -- Aristotle Senior Administrator
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11-13-13  10:15am - 307 days #46
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Originally Posted by Thedebilman666:


So Khan challenged me to this thread and yet has to make an addition. What gives?


Not to pick scabs of old wounds, but ...

I did not *challenge* you. You stated that certain actions didn't qualify one as a "real man", to which I remarked, "I would be curious what *you* feel makes a man a "real man"".

As turboshaft pointed out, I've mentioned elsewhere why I don't generally participate in the actual discussion here.

Still, if everyone can keep in mind that these are my *personal* opinions, I'll add a bit to this thread, just so you don't feel neglected.

A few off the top of my head ...

- A real man is (almost) always in control of his emotions.
- A real man doesn't try to bully or intimidate others just because they are weaker than he is.
- A real man doesn't believe other people must think and live as he does.
- A real man never shows disregard for the rights and properties of others.
- A real man doesn't exercise his intelligence to the disadvantage of his fellow man.
- A real man does good where he can without needing or expecting praise or reward.
- A real man picks his battles; he does not feel threatened by every little barb directed his way.

Well, perhaps others will come to me later. For now, those are a few that ring true to me. Senior Administrator
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Edited on Nov 13, 2013, 10:20am

11-13-13  02:01pm - 307 days #47
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Real men don't think everything is about them

Real men can take a joke no matter how racist, raunchy or politically incorrect it may be

Real men don't change their argument from day to day 6 pack bitches, deal with it Edited on Nov 13, 2013, 03:00pm

11-13-13  06:55pm - 307 days #48
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Originally Posted by Khan:


Reading your post I was reminded of a quote:
"Virtue means doing the right thing .......


Reading your post I was reminded of a quote:

"Vice is nice"
"but a little virtue won't hurt you" Edited by Staff on Nov 13, 2013, 08:20pm (Khan: quoteback fixed)

11-14-13  04:09pm - 306 days #49
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Originally Posted by Khan:


Reading your post I was reminded of a quote:


You said it, or at least quoted it, much better than me. "It's incredibly obvious, isn't it? A foreign substance is introduced into our precious bodily fluids without the knowledge of the individual. Certainly without any choice. That's the way your hardcore Commie works." - Gen. Jack D. Rippper, Dr. Stranglove

11-14-13  04:13pm - 306 days #50
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Originally Posted by graymane:


"Vice is nice"
"but a little virtue won't hurt you"


And a vice can also be virtuous.

For example, some might call sex a vice, but eat a girl out and she may see you as a very virtuous person. "It's incredibly obvious, isn't it? A foreign substance is introduced into our precious bodily fluids without the knowledge of the individual. Certainly without any choice. That's the way your hardcore Commie works." - Gen. Jack D. Rippper, Dr. Stranglove

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