This site, like another of the company's sites, Desperate-wife, is a total bogus rip off. All or at least most of the women profiled on the site do not exist. They're pure fiction. I tried writing to several, and the replies don't make sense. They're just random and general and have no connection to anything you might have said in your message. Also, I get messages from women who have supposedly seen my profile, and if you answer them, the same thing--nonsensical answers. TOTALLY BOGUS.
Having had 'dates' with a few girls from this site I can say it does work however many of the ads show the girls haven't logged in for months.
The blogging/social aspect of AFF is actually very good and I ended up spending most of my time doing that as it was a good way of talking about dirty things and sharing tips etc as well as showing to potential 'mates' you're cool. lol
The worst thing is the fustration that comes from contacting loads of females and hearing back from almost none (seeing as most filter there messages or are no longer active)
That and the cost and wierd way that even as a member you need to pay extra to allow non-members to contact you.
To fully succeed with this site you really do need to put a fair amount in, spend time filling out your profile FULLY, and try and build up a blog/spend time in the different forums/chatrooms.
Oh and a tip from a female (she showed me her account and we chatted about it)
They (females) get 10's of messages a day so to stand out try and personalise the first message somehow and keep it fairly short but provoking conversation.
(Most messages from most guys are obviously sent to everyone and/or are just two sentances crude and lazy.
If you live in Sweden, it seems this site might be OK for getting some. I live close to Oslo in Norway, and I could have gotten laid several times if I didn't have any standards. All the people that contacted me were couples 35+ from Goteborg, Malmo and Stockholm in Sweden. And even though I had stated I was heterosexual, they all wanted me to get it on with the man too. No way, not ever!
I recommend this site to bisexual/trysexual people only, with a fat wallet.
It's impossible to do anything at all except wait if you don't pay. You even have to pay to answer people contacting you, unless THEY pay to allow you to contact them.
Ads on the Net saying that this and that girl from your "neighborhood" awaits you, are NEVER of girls in your "neighborhood"
My rating would be somewhere around 65-70 for this site.
As far as the site goes, it actually not bad. Just resulting to non paying members - no contact or anything from them. Get some wild crazy people from other states. What do you expect? Through a month to give it a shot. Got one real contact which guess they was slow or not interested anymore in the lifestyle. Tried thru my paying time there "hitting on all locals" no luck other than that one I did say. No one puts up a photo hardly kinda rolling the dice 50/50 you will get someone, that is actually real. I say, not bad. The results are different from location and maybe have better luck.Recommend this site? No imo kinda a waste of time in my location.
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